my husband feel the same as me...

[miel]

i think ttc is starting to affect my husband

this morning we were messaging each other online ...here it goes!!!


Sent at 9:31 AM on Wednesday
me: rach from wells farogo call me so payroll is done
she will be calling each month
Daniel: Cool
I had to stand in line at the post office next to a woman who was telling the lady all the packages she was sending were letting her friends and family know she was preganant and inviting them to the shower

me:
Daniel: I wanted to punch her
me:
Daniel: She was too cheery
Sent at 9:49 AM on Wednesday


poor guy !!!!!

 

[vineyard]

My husband always says he wants to ninja kick the pregnant woman. That's horrible but I definitely understand how he feels.

 

[HAYS]

 

[pixielou]

Yeah it's hard for the guys cos they are supposed to stay strong. My hubby is good and he dosent really comment that much about it but I can tell that it upsets him.
X

 

[Bexy]

I think it does effect them fella's more than we give credit for! My DH says he won't hold anybody's baby until it's his own (his sister had baby last May who I am always grabbing cuddles from) - I think this is quite sweet but will probably be beside myself with worry when (if!) he ever does hold our baby...remember to support the head, don't let them do this or that...

 

[pixielou]

I think it does effect them fella's more than we give credit for! My DH says he won't hold anybody's baby until it's his own (his sister had baby last May who I am always grabbing cuddles from) - I think this is quite sweet but will probably be beside myself with worry when (if!) he ever does hold our baby...remember to support the head, don't let them do this or that...

that's funny!

 

[celine]

aww Miel ur man is one in a million, i bet when u whip out that bfp in a few days the smile on his face will be soooo worth it

 

[maz]

My DH is always telling me how many baby bumps he's seen on his travels. I've even got him spotting Quinny Buzz's and Graco Quattro buggies now as well ...

Poor fella ...

 

[Puddleduck]

Mmmm mine was in tears on Sunday when he came home cause he had been out with his mates and all they did was talk about their kids and how they have changed their lives for the better !!!!!!!!!!!! Oh lucky them hey ? They could have been a bit more sensitive as they know our situation and what we are going through... poor DH.

 

[Bexy]

Awww your poor hubby Puddleduck!!! I agree people should be much more sensitive - I suppose blokes just don't understand as much! My DH has recently told his closest friends about our 2 year struggle and they were lovely - not sure it will make them any more sensitive but they certainly made him feel a bit better...one of his friends just looks at a woman and she's pregnant (3 abortions in passed relationships and his current partner was pregnant 3 months into their relationship due to a "mistake" and then another "mistake" 1 year later)...he refers to himself and his partner "the breeders" but its something we sort of laugh about...

 

[Bumber]

I am loving all these comments. Arent men great.

My DH is such a deep thinker who doesnt go into too much with his mates so we just end up talking to each other. He is great. He must be cos I can be a right cow! x