beetlebailey
TTC after a miscarriage
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Well i came off the injection about a year back and have been waiting for then to get my periods back. They started again in September and me and hubby was really happy as meant we could start TTC.
We had been trying and i had been reading books on fertility and best ways to get pregnant etc, nothing the first month but this month was different. i was due on 16th of Novemeber but had nothing. However i did start feeling "strange" i was having classic pregnant symptoms so i took a test and it was negative, i tested every 48 hours but was getting negatives.
On friday i went to the toilet and when i wiped there was blood, i thought it was the start of my period, sat morning i had come on but i was really really heavy and i was in so much pain. This continued sunday and monday and the bleeding was the heaviest i have ever been. Monday night i was doubled over with pain and couldnt sleep. I eventually fell off to sleep but when i woke about 9am i went to the toilet and i had passed as what i can only describe as a bean shaped clot, i booked an appointment at the doc and i went and they confirmed i had miscarried. I was heartbroken especially as i didnt know i was pregnant. It is so upsetting and so heartwrenching. I feel empty.
Hubby has been a tower of strength. The bleeding and pains have now eased off but still sore.
I was 5 weeks. Its been a saviour being able to come on here and express my feelings, so thank you.
to you all XXX
We had been trying and i had been reading books on fertility and best ways to get pregnant etc, nothing the first month but this month was different. i was due on 16th of Novemeber but had nothing. However i did start feeling "strange" i was having classic pregnant symptoms so i took a test and it was negative, i tested every 48 hours but was getting negatives.
On friday i went to the toilet and when i wiped there was blood, i thought it was the start of my period, sat morning i had come on but i was really really heavy and i was in so much pain. This continued sunday and monday and the bleeding was the heaviest i have ever been. Monday night i was doubled over with pain and couldnt sleep. I eventually fell off to sleep but when i woke about 9am i went to the toilet and i had passed as what i can only describe as a bean shaped clot, i booked an appointment at the doc and i went and they confirmed i had miscarried. I was heartbroken especially as i didnt know i was pregnant. It is so upsetting and so heartwrenching. I feel empty.
Hubby has been a tower of strength. The bleeding and pains have now eased off but still sore.
I was 5 weeks. Its been a saviour being able to come on here and express my feelings, so thank you.
to you all XXX
so sorry for your loss honey
