Karatedingo
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Back story on our baby. She was premature at 32 weeks and 7 days but very healthy. Didnt need a feeding tube or assisted breathing. Once she was the equivilant to 35 weeks she was able to come home.
Once we brought our daughter home, i did everything to take care of her and my wife since she just gave birth.
Fast forward 2 months later, I am back at work in full commission sales (10 hour days, 12 every saturday). When I come home from work, I do everything from that point on. If she is hungry at night I am the one to feed her, fussy, diaper change, anything I am the only one to do it.
I do not mind taking turns by any means but she refuses to do so.
Unfortunately, it has gotten to the point where I simply cant function at work anymore because I am so sleep deprived. As I said, I am commission only so if I dont sell I dont get paid. When driving to and from work I have to chug an energy drink or I fall asleep at red lights.
I have brought this issue up to her before but her stance is "I take care of her when youre at work so you can when you are home"
I am not sure what to do anymore at this point and just looking for advice
(My wife was a part time seasonal worker before the baby before anyone asks)
Once we brought our daughter home, i did everything to take care of her and my wife since she just gave birth.
Fast forward 2 months later, I am back at work in full commission sales (10 hour days, 12 every saturday). When I come home from work, I do everything from that point on. If she is hungry at night I am the one to feed her, fussy, diaper change, anything I am the only one to do it.
I do not mind taking turns by any means but she refuses to do so.
Unfortunately, it has gotten to the point where I simply cant function at work anymore because I am so sleep deprived. As I said, I am commission only so if I dont sell I dont get paid. When driving to and from work I have to chug an energy drink or I fall asleep at red lights.
I have brought this issue up to her before but her stance is "I take care of her when youre at work so you can when you are home"
I am not sure what to do anymore at this point and just looking for advice
(My wife was a part time seasonal worker before the baby before anyone asks)