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Need some advice on finding FOBs parents?

vinnypeanut

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Basically FOB hasnt told his family that hes got a baby....just before we broke up they moved house and i dont know their new address...i never met his mum because they live about 2 hours away and i dont know her name obviously only theyre surname. Ive had enough of his sh*t and lies now, he keeps saying hes going to tell them then he comes up with some other bullcrap excuse so im just gonna do it for him.
Only problem is i dont know how i can get hold of them!?
Does anybody have any ideas?? :flower:
 
Have you tried writing a letter to their OLD address? If it hasn't been too long, perhaps it will get forwarded to their new address. Otherwise, you could try one of those websites where you can search people. Generally, addresses are not updated on those things the moment they move...it even takes a couple of years in some cases. Maybe you can find at least her name that way.
 
:hugs: No idea's on how to search for them other than letting FOB use your loo nicking his phone and getting their phone number! lol

:hugs: xx
 
They may well have a redirection on their post as a lot of people do when they move. If they have, it will get automatically forwarded to their new address. Only problem is, unless they respond you will never know if they received it or not.
 
We have the exact same situation, FOB has not told his parents either, and my LO will be 7 months soon! And he said he would tell them when i was pregnant, i wouldnt hold your breath about him telling them, so i would deff do it yourself.

The thing with writing the letter is, is that you wont no if the have recieved it or not, or if they decided not to reply. Is there any way you could go to their old address, and pretend to the people now living there that you dont no they have moved, and when they say that they have you could see if they know where they live now.

Or you could try 192.com, you will need her surname and you could try her old address.


Or maybe a private investigator... otherwise im not too sure!!

Good luck!

xx
 
Dont the Salvation Army find people?
And I read not long ago, a private investigator chargse around £50 for finding people, as its usually quite easy (however they do it) x
 
Whereabouts are you?

There are a number of different ways to find people, but they vary from country to country ... if you are in the UK then I might be able to help as I've done a bit of people searching (and finding! ) before.

PM me if you think I can help :hugs:
 
oh im trying to do this atm too, its hard but im going to do it! FOB says his parents know, but i dont know if i believe him anymore. Im thinking about msging his brother on FB and asking him outright for a eay to contact his parents... :S
 
Has he got facebook? If so then search his last name and tell another family member im sure they'll tell his parents! Or send a msg sayin plz cud u forward my number to mr and mrs ? Its urgent
 

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