Need some advice regarding divorce/child custody/ What to do from here ?

[Ruskiegirl]

Well me and husband have been married for almost 11 years. Last night i told him how i was feeling and he basicly said he doesnt think he loves me anymore. He said he was going to try and take full custody of our daughter ( which i will try my damnded hardest not let happen) She has already said she wants to live with me she is 10. I dont have any work skills ( been a stay at home mom most of my life) I am just unsure of where to go from here and what to do. I already have a place lined up and am going to talk to the womens center here which might be able to help me get a new job or offer some other assistance. I will be left with no vehicle for a little while but my mother and father are willing to help me out with transportation. If you guys can offer any advice to me about what i should do from here or any ideas please let me know!!

 

[MissEfendi]

I am not sure how it works in the USA but in the UK as your child is over a certain age her opinions and feelings would be taken into consideration. I would doubt very much that custody would go to your husband unless you are an unfit mother , so I would not worry about his threats ( what is with all the men on here making so many threats to us mums?!).
Just focus on yourself and your daughter,take all the help you can get, do your research to laws and your rights online or go and get legal advice, but honestly, he would not get custody though I am pretty sure he will get access, which would only be fair since she is 10, you were married, and he has been in her life ( unless of course he has cause her harm).

Good luck x