New here 35 pregnant and bleeding

[lEEl0W]

sooo I took 3hpts yesterday tested positive ... However last night I bleed like a period kind of cramping but noo clotting (was suppose to have my period 2weeks ago this Friday) I took another hpt this am positive again and took a blood test ....positive ...I'm still bleeding and worried ..my doctor is out of town til July 5th(go figure) I just took another hpt and it's positive as well .... Has this happened to anyone else this is my first pregnancy ... Thinking I'm either worrying too much or in denial ... Going to search for another dr that is an ob hoping for better confirmation before the 7th or shall I just wait etc

 

[Lyvid]

If it's just a little bit of spotting I wouldn't worry too much but if it's fairly constant and it's like AF bleeding then I would try to see another Dr or go to the ER. I've read many accounts of women who have bled early in their pg, from just slightly tinged spotting to full AF type bleeding who have gone on to have healthy babies so it's not definitely mc but it could be something else that needs to be watched. FX'd for you!

 

[lEEl0W]

Sorry I'm new to all of this what is AF ... Yes I'm going to call another dr in the am a friend just suggested to me crossing my fingers I can see her in the am

 

[Lyvid]

Sorry I'm new to all of this what is AF ... Yes I'm going to call another dr in the am a friend just suggested to me crossing my fingers I can see her in the am

S'ok, "Aunt Flo" aka your period

Here's the link to the lingo/abbreviations used on here, you'll find it very helpful!

https://www.babyandbump.com/forum-help-testing-area/730-babyandbump-lingo-abbreviations.html

 

[lEEl0W]

Soo on tuesday it was like AF .. I honestly thought I was having my period used a tampon ... I stated that when I went to lab and got a bfp (thanks for the lingo link) .. Im kindof spotting its like I sau im not bleeding ...oh I am well im going to call and see if I can talk with someone question even if bleeding with a blood test and ph call "congratulations your pregnant" think ... I didn't break the baby? :/ im over analyzing this so much im on google and can sleep im going to make the days longer than they are lol

 

[creatingpeace]

Hey I hope all is getting better for you! Do not use a tampon while pregnant only use pads. It is bacteria related. Keep us posted and all the best to you!

 

[Lyvid]

Soo on tuesday it was like AF .. I honestly thought I was having my period used a tampon ... I stated that when I went to lab and got a bfp (thanks for the lingo link) .. Im kindof spotting its like I sau im not bleeding ...oh I am well im going to call and see if I can talk with someone question even if bleeding with a blood test and ph call "congratulations your pregnant" think ... I didn't break the baby? :/ im over analyzing this so much im on google and can sleep im going to make the days longer than they are lol

You didn't break the baby! Even if, god forbid, you m/c it's not your fault. Many, many women m/c and often they don't even realize it happened as it's super early on, they just think AF was a few days late. I hope everything is ok, let us know what the Dr's say.

 

[lEEl0W]

Well the upside I guess is I got pregnant I really didn't think I could
After another sleepless worriful night of did I break the baby I made an apt with an unknown obgyn .... She was nice enough after hearing my situation to fit me in cervix exam she didn't believe I had a miscarriage and said I didn't and couldn't break the baby ... Blood work today hcg level 2350 ... Unknown for we'd test (they just tested if I was or wasn't pg) ... Happiness for an hour til the ultrasound tech didn't find baby then the I have to ask the dr .... Wait again ....still waiting go back to the ob I saw in the am oh that is also going out of town

I either miscarried, have an ovarian cyst, or an ECTOPIC pregnancy more blood sat and another US on Monday .....I believe tonight I will be myself to sleep and as I sleep .........

 

[lEEl0W]

Has to be the longest weekend .... So my level went from 2350 to 3000+ on Saturday dr called me from hm scary said may be ectopic I asked if maybe dates were wrong and I wasnt far along she said maybe but we will see tomorrow ... Praying scared and started bleeding again but according to my reg dr's nurse remain clam I haven't passed anything and we will wait and see .....

 

[BeachComber]

Oh my goodness I hope everything is ok hon! You are in my thoughts and prayers! Please keep us posted!

 

[Lyvid]

Oh no, hun, what a horrible weekend. Keeping my FX'd for you. Please update us as soon as you know something

 

[lEEl0W]

So after to much cramping last night my bf rushed my to the er my nice fill in gyno meet me there took blood us and it was true my first baby was an ectopic baby :'( ... I was rushed into emergency surgery and had it removed, she tried to save my right Fallopian tube but that was removed also it was nice meeting you all and one day I will be back again I have my follow up apt in 2weeks so we will see what happens then

 

[Storm1jet2]

So after to much cramping last night my bf rushed my to the er my nice fill in gyno meet me there took blood us and it was true my first baby was an ectopic baby :'( ... I was rushed into emergency surgery and had it removed, she tried to save my right Fallopian tube but that was removed also it was nice meeting you all and one day I will be back again I have my follow up apt in 2weeks so we will see what happens then

Aww honey - so sorry and how traumatic! Take some time for yourself and you will be back here someday in the not too distant future

 

[Lyvid]

So after to much cramping last night my bf rushed my to the er my nice fill in gyno meet me there took blood us and it was true my first baby was an ectopic baby :'( ... I was rushed into emergency surgery and had it removed, she tried to save my right Fallopian tube but that was removed also it was nice meeting you all and one day I will be back again I have my follow up apt in 2weeks so we will see what happens then

Oh no! I''m so very sorry. You'll be back don't worry! And in the meantime you should join the ladies over in the 35+ TTC forum, they're a really wonderful bunch! Hope the follow up goes well.

 

[Legacy2011]

I can relate to your worry and fears because I had an ectopic in January which resulted in a tube removal but here I am 6w3d pregnant at 35. I have also been spotting pretty regularly and have a doc appt. tomorrow. Wish could call today but it's the holiday. Driving me crazy. No cramping or pain except early evening which I think has been gas pains but it also worries me to death. I wouldn't worry too much until you see your doc. I know it's hard but I'm in the same boat. Hang in there!!!

 

[lEEl0W]

I'm still daily .... The physical pain is still there and the emotional ..... Well one day at a time ... I pray that you and the baby will be fine I totally understand the annoyance in waiting for the dr apt ....I go back on the 13th I joined this support group on Facebook but no one really responds do you know of any online support forums?

 

[Leeze]

aw, sweetie - that's really sad. sending you big hugs. Like Lyvid said the TTC over 35 bunch are really lovely. Also the TTC after a loss group are really supportive too. I hope you've got some good support around you right now

 

[lEEl0W]

i've been over in ttc after a loss .... thank you all for the support and kind words someday i hope to be back here again with a better story ....

 

[Ruth2307]

So sorry for your loss. You have really been through it haven't you?

I am 37 and managed to conceive with only one tube (and PCOS) however sadly I had an EPRC for a MMC last week.

Just to reassure you that it is definitely possible to conceive with only one tube. Hopefully when we are both ready, we can do so again but this time it will be with a forever baby.

Take care of yourself aad take your time getting better
xxxx

 

[lEEl0W]

Oh noooo
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And yes one day it will happened for the both of us ...