New here- ttc two years...

[sarah3592]

just a brief break down, i'm Sarah, my partner and i have been TTC for two years now, we've had 5 losses, 1 mmc 2mc and 2 CPs - it took us 8 month before we caught then the losses happened a few months apart, i am under investigation for endometriosis and have my LAP op on 21.05.2015, yesterday we preformed an at home sperm test which was low/negative.. so today we are feeling very deflated any advice etc would be great!

 

[lemon_tree]

Welcome to the forums.

So sorry to hear about your losses, that sounds incredibly painful.

I wanted to send you a hug and say I know you're not alone.

I don't know anything about the home sperm test, but I think you should check in with your doctor. There may be nothing wrong, but finding out what you're dealing with, if anything, could help put your mind at ease.

Fingers crossed for you!

 

[Bee Bee]

Im sorry to hear about your losses as well Ive had a few CPs myself and an ectopic, so I know the feeling (also been TTC for almost 2 years).

Honestly, I dont know the accuracy of those home tests. To me, if you are getting pregnant at all then that would suggest that the sperm are probably fine. I have a friend whose husband has a low sperm count and they've never seen able to get pregnant. So, really, I think the sperm are fine. But I would definitely have him go to a urologist just to rule it out

 

[sarah3592]

Thank you for your comments, the reason we done the test was we know low /poor sperm quality can be a factor in why women miscarry, we're going to see the gp Monday to see what to do next, I'm so confused xx