newly single (sorta)

[Zebra Stars]

well im 25 weeks,
and as i won't be living with FOB or me or him don't drive, he wants the LO to stay at his at least once a week help?

what happend with you & FOB?
what arangements did you have?

 

[Laura2919]

Are you in a relationship with him or not? You say sort of but I dont understand it

 

[scottishgal89]

im a bit confused about whether or not your together?
if you are together and you and lo stay at his then even though its very inconvienient then you could do if you wanted. however as lo started to get older it would become more difficult as it would mess up their routine and baby's know when they're not 'home'.
if your not together and he would have lo alone i would say no.
a baby needs to be with their mum all of the time to bond at first. it can confuse the baby and scare them being somewhere else.
are you planning on bf? that wouldnt work either.

threw a court fob would get an hour a week or something with you there. he wouldnt get overnight access until they were around 2 or 3. depends how civil you are.
what happened with me and fob is a long story and at the minute he doesnt see lo at all. my situation is very different though.

if you give us more info it will be easier for us to give you advice on your situation?!

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah see I dont understand it either because if you are together then your not a single mum, I am sure there are ways around it hun..

On the other hand if you are a single mum then we can offer advice, We dont really know about having a relationship with someone long distance..

 

[Zebra Stars]

were not together, sorry about the confusion,
but FOB basicly wants the LO all to himself

 

[scottishgal89]

ok just start from the beginning when you get the chance and give us the full story then we'll hopefully be able to help. if your not together thought i did give info in my other post that should help

 

[Laura2919]

Well if your not together tell him where to poke it hun!

He should make the effort to come and see his child.. What does he expect you to do??? Take the baby to him leave the baby at a young age and then go home?? What a joker..