No AF, NO cramps, negative urine test???

[Scholar]

Okay ladies I've got a doozie.

Since the beginning I my ovulation I had been feeling tired and really " wet down there" with cramps and back aches. At about 9dpo I began having worse cramps in my waist line lower tummy area that we achy and stretchy along with nipple pain and acid reflux and heartburn. Still exhausted and peeing a ton! I tested from 8 dpo to 17 dpo = 3 days late (no af). ALL BFNs.

Now 3 days late AND A BFN I've no cramps, no back ache, no nausea, and instead of af I've got thin white milky discharge (not enough for a liner but present and sore boobs (on tops and sides).

What does any of this mean? Should I keep testing and if so when is enough?

I can't wait to hear some over your ideas

Xoxo

 

[WishnandHopn]

Your symptoms sounds promising! The limbo late AF and BFN is so frustrating! How sure are you about when you O'd? What kind of tests are you using? I would keep testing every other day...fingers crossed your BFP is right around the corner!

 

[Scholar]

My period has been regular (30 days) for 3 months, every 27th would put my OD on day 12th or 13th Right? I keep getting this wet feeling but it's more of the same, thin milky white discharge. Still no cramps not even an ache which is weird because usually I cramp ever 8-14 dpo every month. Pretty badly as I need Tylenol. But this month during ovulation I cramped as usual (pretty painful) in my waistline area or on my left side by ovary (which was persistent), I have these twinges around my waistline and piling sort of, then during sex I noticed an enormous amount of discharge really sticky and white (tmi) . Then it all stopped the day af was due. All I have now is sore nipples and boobs. Frequent trips to the lou and discharge..

I won't lie the bfns are starting to mess with my head, but last time I conceived I didn't test until I had missed my period for two weeks! Which put me at 6 weeks pregnant. I hate to wait another 10-14 days but if it means a bfp I'll take it. I'm using the 88.cent Walmart brand, it worked the first time I conceived.

Also there are twinges in my lower abdomen which aren't painful but feel weird, then I feel like I have butterflies.. ugh the madness!

Baby dust!!!! xoxo

 

[babylights]

Hi scholar! Considering your past history of late bfp, late af and your other symptoms, it sounds super promising that you'll get your bfp in a matter of days! Excited to see your beautiful bfp soon!!

 

[Scholar]

Update-

I am now 5-6 days late and as of today, I've stopped testing now as I'm almost sure or am worried I'd get a bfn again, plus my 20 hpt's dwindled down to 1 so I'm saving it.

My symptoms are no af (5 days now), thin milky white discharge now enough to see in my underwear and that's it! Nothing else! I find it super weird that I cramped all moth horribly and now absolutely nothing. I've read online other women who were in my same boat went one of two ways. Either a really late bfp or really late af but those women felt as if af was coming. I've got no signs of that happening.

Thinking I should test on day 7 of no af and hoping I get an accurate answer but how long before I should see my obgyn?

Anyone else ever heard or been through this? What was the turn out ?

TTC #1 as of December 2016

Baby dust to all!!!

Xoxo

 

[BSN2MOM]

It wouldn't hurt to make an appointment with your OBGYN if you're feeling anxious (at least call to see when they would want to see you!). Maybe save that HPT and ask them when they would suggest taking that last one as well? Best of luck!

 

[Scholar]

I tried to make an appointment with my doctor who isn't available for another two weeks! Now af still hasn't come and the thin milky white discharges has doubled in amount and is now thicker, a lot thicker. I've got sore nipples and that's about it. No cramps, no pain, no cravings or nausea. I wonder if this is a good sign?

I'm gonna take what I can get with the appointment and will just have to wait, there's a lot of waiting in this baby game lol..

 

[WishnandHopn]

Good luck Scholar! I don't know how you're not peeing on sticks daily...I go mental with poas when AF is late for even a day or two!

 

[Scholar]

Good luck Scholar! I don't know how you're not peeing on sticks daily...I go mental with poas when AF is late for even a day or two!

I've poas everyday from 8dpo-17dpo with all bfn. DH told me to give my heart a break so I'm just peeing down the drain which is killing me!!! Now I think oh gosh what if I just flushed my bfp!!!?? Lol!

 

[Scholar]

Poas today... bfn.. now DH is starting to look at me like I'm broken. No period, no bfp so I guess I can see his reasoning. But I guess his friends who are absent fathers had it so easy not trying and not preventing and still conceived.. sigh went to class early today to have a good cry. Pregnant or not I still have to go home 😪 And according to today's hpt I'll be going still not pregnant.

 

[babylights]

Could it be that your urine was too diluted? Maybe fmu will be better? I'm so sorry that you're going through this hon

 

[Scholar]

I tried fmu three days in a row and still bfn. I drink nothing but water, no coffee no tea, no juice. I guess now that I think about it I drink nothing but water!?!? Could that dilute my hpts?? I got my doctor to see me six days sooner so at least I have that. But no one wants to go all the way to the Dr for a bfn! Lol

 

[BSN2MOM]

Don't get down on yourself! As far as diluted urine... do you drink a LOT of water and do you test in the morning first thing? I know drinking too much water can dilute and give a negative test, that's why they recommend morning testing. I'm hoping to see you post a here soon!!!

 

[Scholar]

Thanks ladies! I got a blood tests rush for today.. this is it!!

 

[WishnandHopn]

Good luck!!!

 

[BSN2MOM]

Keep us updated !!

 

[Scholar]

Update-

Still no af
Negative blood test
Negative urine test
Fertility appointment on Wednesday

Sigh...

 

[WishnandHopn]

So sorry...limbo is absolute torture. I hope you get an answer soon! Good luck at the fertility appt.

 

[BSN2MOM]

Ugh, what a bummer! I hope you get your answers soon!

 

[Scholar]

Update
Well I missed my fertility appointment today and had to reschedule it for next Wednesday 😞.
I had a job interview which went awesome! However now I am 13 days late, not sure if I'm even gonna ovulate this month and f***ing frustrated.

I began cramping today and for the first time since MLP on 12/27/16. It is accompanied by thick creamy white discharge..

I haven't been testing.. I've gone of poas the negatives became too much, and with af AWOL I've not been down to BD lately..

Ugh, stupid af is a bitch...😏