No normal PMS symptoms 10 DPO...Good sign or bad?

[Kellysmom]

First of all, I'm completely new here. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to join your community!!
I consider myself one of the "lucky" ones that can sometimes tell right down to the hour when I ovulate. I get the usual ridiculous pain on one side, and red spotting that lasts for just an hour or so.... but it only happens maybe 8 out of the 12 months a year. This month and last, I did not get that usual red spotting, but I had positive OPK's both months.
Every month, like clockwork, I get PMS symptoms starting @ 7 dpo. Breast tenderness, mood swings, cramps, dry CM... the works. This month, my bb's are not even the slightest bit sore... not even if I try to force it and I am @ 10 dpo. Two BFN's now have me thinking that I am in the midst of an anovulatory cycle. I keep thinking that I would have had to implant @ 6 or 7 dpo to save the corpus luteum if in fact this is the reason my bb's don't hurt. But implantation at that time would have given me a BFP by now. SOooooo..... what do you ladies think?
After 6 months TTC, if my cycles are going to start getting wacky like this, I'm seriously considering throwing in the towel! Any advince would be amazing at this point.... Thanks in advance!

 

[tryin4baby]

dont give up hun, it will happen!
you might not have even implanted yet if your only 10dpo, its between 6-12dpo. good luck!!

 

[shanmorgan97]

First of all, I'm completely new here. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to join your community!!
I consider myself one of the "lucky" ones that can sometimes tell right down to the hour when I ovulate. I get the usual ridiculous pain on one side, and red spotting that lasts for just an hour or so.... but it only happens maybe 8 out of the 12 months a year. This month and last, I did not get that usual red spotting, but I had positive OPK's both months.
Every month, like clockwork, I get PMS symptoms starting @ 7 dpo. Breast tenderness, mood swings, cramps, dry CM... the works. This month, my bb's are not even the slightest bit sore... not even if I try to force it and I am @ 10 dpo. Two BFN's now have me thinking that I am in the midst of an anovulatory cycle. I keep thinking that I would have had to implant @ 6 or 7 dpo to save the corpus luteum if in fact this is the reason my bb's don't hurt. But implantation at that time would have given me a BFP by now. SOooooo..... what do you ladies think?
After 6 months TTC, if my cycles are going to start getting wacky like this, I'm seriously considering throwing in the towel! Any advince would be amazing at this point.... Thanks in advance!

You sound like me! I have been ttc for about 4 months now. Before ttc I had a normal 28 day cycle about a week before my period my bbs would hurt and was always dry as a bone lol. Now I have gone all crazy....Im either early or I am late for my af. All I can say is wait it out. You could have ovulated later this month or testing too early.

 

[Kellysmom]

Thx ladies!! I keep going through all the possibilities, and there are just too many to count on my fingers. It is possible I O'd one day later than I thought, making me 9 dpo today. This would also change my implantation date, giving me more hope that I'm testing too early. On the up side, I do have a great number of other PMS symptoms I don't normally have, like increased CM, hot flashes, and a general ill feeling.... and I took a really bad/cheap hpt this afternoon that showed a second line (probably evap!), but it gives me a little more hope! Thanks for the support girls!!

 

[Kellysmom]

Sooo, still nothing. This has got to be the most frustrating thing I have EVER experienced! I am so ready to throw in the towel! I just don't get it! I had positive OPK's for 24 hours. My LP has never been longer than 15 days, EVER! I obviously can't be 100% sure that I actually ovulated, but why does this have to happen this cycle? My progesterone levels are obviously still high, because I'm not spotting like normal and I have a very abundant amount of CM. This means either pregnancy or that my levels are still building to peak after O.... yet several BFN later, I'm guessing we're completely out this cycle, and are probably screwed for next cycle as well! Next month is really our last month to try, so I'm honestly devastated! I'm sorry... just needed to rant.