No Support from mom- 15 and pregnant

[Mia Ninja cat]

My dad walked out on us when i was 12, im now 15 and preganant, and living with my boyfriend since 14 b/cause my moms always wasted, my bf's name is ryan, i am 3 months and i am naming my kid Alexndra (girl) call her Alex, i havent talked to my mom seriously in a year and id really like her to meet her grand-daughter, my mom that acts like my mom is Victoria, Ryan's Mom, and Ryan's dad, Jim is like my dad, so i the only support i have is from my bf's family, no one in my family actually talks to me, i get made fun of at school i get called a slut, and hoar, i used to be popular b4 alex came along, i am very sporty i do cc, track, and gymnastics, ryan is also the best sprinter and pv'er on our school track team so ya

Any advice on mom situation slash teasing situation or just any advice?

 

[aidensxmomma]

I don't have much advice but I didn't want to read and run.

As for the teasing, you're just going to have to hold your head high and ignore it. People are like that and you just need to deal with it.

When I got pregnant I had everyone calling me a slut and a whore, including some of my teachers. I also had people going up to my OH and telling him he wasn't the dad (he definitely is). It's just something you have to deal with.

You can make it, hun.

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

I'm sorry to hear you're having such a hard time. But it seems Ryan's parents are supporting you with the pregnancy? If you don't mind me asking, how old is Ryan?

Sadly, being called names is all apart of young pregnancy/motherhood. You just have to ignore them and be the adult in the situation. I know it's hard and because of the hormones you think it might be better just to throw them off a bridge (That wasn't just me, right? ) But you just have to remind yourself that you can't be stressed out right now.

If you don't mind me asking, how did you find out the sex so early? Or are you just guessing it's a girl?

 

[aob1013]

Hi hun,

Sorry to be so blunt here, but part and parcel of having a baby so young will be the stares, comments, unwanted attention etc. I'm afraid it will just be something you have to accept and move on from. I'm nearly 19 so i don't really get any comments or stares - but if i do i would respond with something witty, i advise you to do the same

Congratulations x

 

[PleaseBaby]

You love your baby and your not ashamed of her so don't lets these idiots poil your happiness! Does your mum know your pregnant?

 

[cabaretmum2b]

Hey

It is a sad fact of life that people are ignorant and you will get teased etc. You could speak to your teachers about it, but I really don't know how far that will get you. The best thing to do is just to hold your head up high and ignore you - as much as it doesn't feel like it, it won't go on forever! And when your baby arrives, he/she will be so important to you that the rest won't matter.
If you have your mum's phone number, maybe it would be an idea to call her and say you'd like to go for a coffee (well, maybe not coffee for you!) and tell her to her face then? That way you'll be able to talk to her about it properly and tell her you'd like her to meet her grandchild.
Also, slightly off-topic, but are you sure you're having a girl? I don't want to sound nasty, but don't get your hopes up for a girl and then get upset when you find out you're having a boy, if you know what I mean?
Congratulations on your pregnancy, and I hope that things work out well for you!

 

[Char&Bump-x]

You're 3 months and know its a girl?

 

[tiggy]

Ignore these ppl and good luck with ur pregnancy.

But ye how do u know the sex so early??????

 

[AppleBlossom]

Welcome to BnB. Sorry if this sounds rude, but how do you know you're having a girl at 3 months? Anyway, being pregnant at 15 you WILL get comments, stares etc you just have to learn to ignore it. As for the mum situation, if she is always wasted I wouldn't really want her around my child. If when the baby is born she decides she wants to be involved, if she can manage to control her drink then fair enough. If you have the support of your bf's family then I wouldn't worry too much for now

 

[Marzipan_girl]

When I was 3 months they told me it was more than likely i was having a boy...And I just had that confirmed today. So it is possible to know at this point. And anyway maybe she doesn't KNOW but just saying she will call her Alex if she IS a girl...or just wants her to be a girl.

 

[haley09]

3 months and you already know?!?! sorry but they had no idea what i was having at three months, is that possible!!?/

 

[haley09]

and also you said it was a boy in the introduce yourself forum...and now it's a girl?!....im lost

 

[Jo]

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