MrsD140810
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- May 7, 2013
- Messages
- 195
- Reaction score
- 0
Hi ladies,
I had a miscarriage two weeks ago. I was 9 weeks pregnant and had a scan the previous week which showed a baby and healthy heartbeat. That's what made this even more devastating. I had an operation just over a week ago and I'm feeling better physically. I'm still emotional, feel down and am very tired.
I had a miscarriage before we had our daughter but it didn't really affect my husband in the same way this one has. I think it's because I was further on this time and we had seen the baby on the scan.
I want to TTC again soon, after I've had my first period. My husband doesn't want to though. He thinks we should wait. He thinks we'll be too paranoid about something going wrong again if we try now and doesn't want to go through this again if it did go wrong.
I tried to explain that I think we'll be worried about something going wrong regardless of if we try now or wait a year or two. Although I'm down at the moment, the thought of trying again is making me feel really positive. We won't forget the baby we lost. We're going to have a memorial in the garden. I just think trying again will be positive.
Has anyone else had any disagreements with their partner about this? Just don't know what to do or whether I should just leave it.
I had a miscarriage two weeks ago. I was 9 weeks pregnant and had a scan the previous week which showed a baby and healthy heartbeat. That's what made this even more devastating. I had an operation just over a week ago and I'm feeling better physically. I'm still emotional, feel down and am very tired.
I had a miscarriage before we had our daughter but it didn't really affect my husband in the same way this one has. I think it's because I was further on this time and we had seen the baby on the scan.
I want to TTC again soon, after I've had my first period. My husband doesn't want to though. He thinks we should wait. He thinks we'll be too paranoid about something going wrong again if we try now and doesn't want to go through this again if it did go wrong.
I tried to explain that I think we'll be worried about something going wrong regardless of if we try now or wait a year or two. Although I'm down at the moment, the thought of trying again is making me feel really positive. We won't forget the baby we lost. We're going to have a memorial in the garden. I just think trying again will be positive.
Has anyone else had any disagreements with their partner about this? Just don't know what to do or whether I should just leave it.
