a breif on my pregnancy history before asking my question:
April 9 2012, I delivered my first son at 21 weeks, suspected preterm labour (determined by GP), no tests done after. November 2012, early miscarriage approx. 6-7 weeks-no D & C, no tests done. Most recently, I lost my second son, July 12 2013 at 17 weeks. This time I was told I would have a referral to a specialist (has not happened yet), and insisted on an autopsy, which I have heard nothing about.
Tomorrow I have my first appointment with an OB/GYN. It was initially booked to determine what measures should be taken to prevent preterm labour, I would be 21 weeks. Obviously, that is no longer the point of the visit, and they tried to cancel my appointment. After a panic attack, they agreed I could still come in. Now, with the appointment right around the corner, I am not sure what to do or what to ask...basically, this is my last leg to stand on, seems as the doctors in my small town are not qualified to help me further.
I am curious, for those who have seen an ob/gyn specifically regarding recurrent losses, what things did you find important to mention or ask? I REALLY don't want to waste this appointment, as the waiting list to see him is QUITE long. I am in Canada...if that makes any difference to the system. PLEASE, pleas, ladies-I really need some advice.
April 9 2012, I delivered my first son at 21 weeks, suspected preterm labour (determined by GP), no tests done after. November 2012, early miscarriage approx. 6-7 weeks-no D & C, no tests done. Most recently, I lost my second son, July 12 2013 at 17 weeks. This time I was told I would have a referral to a specialist (has not happened yet), and insisted on an autopsy, which I have heard nothing about.
Tomorrow I have my first appointment with an OB/GYN. It was initially booked to determine what measures should be taken to prevent preterm labour, I would be 21 weeks. Obviously, that is no longer the point of the visit, and they tried to cancel my appointment. After a panic attack, they agreed I could still come in. Now, with the appointment right around the corner, I am not sure what to do or what to ask...basically, this is my last leg to stand on, seems as the doctors in my small town are not qualified to help me further.
I am curious, for those who have seen an ob/gyn specifically regarding recurrent losses, what things did you find important to mention or ask? I REALLY don't want to waste this appointment, as the waiting list to see him is QUITE long. I am in Canada...if that makes any difference to the system. PLEASE, pleas, ladies-I really need some advice.