OH is being an asshole, yet again.

[AriannasMama]

So on Saturday OH's nephew has a birthday party and I told OH I would come over Friday and spend the night then go to the party. Assuming that was the plan I made an appointment to get my car seat inspected Friday morning then I would go over there right after. He of course wants to change the plans and have me come over tonight and stay until Saturday, I kept telling him I can't over and over, and he finally said he would just make an appointment for the car seat inspection by his house so I could come tonight and I agreed, well then I realize I need to do laundry before I come so I told him I could either come after laundry is done or just come Friday like the original plans. He blows up at me and starts getting all pissed off saying I'm blowing him off and he's just gonna go out and find someone else.

He seriously gets mad over the dumbest shit and I am so tired of it, so I finally told him if he is really gonna go out and do what he says that he better not ever call me again. I just cant deal with it anymore, he throws fits like a little kid when he doesn't get his way. So now I don't really know what him and I are anymore, and of course he choses today, our supposed to be 3 year anniversary to do all this.

 

[youngmum2b]

Wow, dont really have any advice just didnt want to r&r.

 

[smatheson]

Im sorry hun. i know how you feel my oh does the same thing. It sucks having to deal with their immature bullshit when they should be understanding cause your the one that is pregnant carrying his baby! I hope everything gets better for you

 

[AriannasMama]

Im sorry hun. i know how you feel my oh does the same thing. It sucks having to deal with their immature bullshit when they should be understanding cause your the one that is pregnant carrying his baby! I hope everything gets better for you

He seems to forget that every time he does this stupid kiddy stuff its not only stressing me out but HIS BABY at the same time, I don't get why he thinks he always has to get his way, it really makes me mad.

 

[smatheson]

hah its funny cause he sounds exactly like my OH. And thats the thing that pisses me off is that its stressing the baby out too, but hopefully he will call and apologize soon.

 

[MissWaiting]

oh sweet huge hugs maybe you need to sit him down and talk to him and tell him when you are stressed this is effecting the baby and tell him when things need to be done they have to get done and that when he wants you to come over on short notice he needs to compramise and say ok we will stick to the plan or ok i will see you abit leter then or even offer to come help you .Please hunni thought do what you feel is right for you and your baby and there will always be people there to give you a hug and cheer you up.
sending huge hugs

 

[AriannasMama]

hah its funny cause he sounds exactly like my OH. And thats the thing that pisses me off is that its stressing the baby out too, but hopefully he will call and apologize soon.

He already did . I don't get why he even acts that way if hes gonna call me 5-10 minutes later and apologize. Its seriously like a little kid in a store when his/her mom says no to a toy or something, lol. Throws a fit then realizes how stupid he looks.

 

[smatheson]

well im glad he apologized cause you and the baby dont need to be stressed out

 

[AriannasMama]

I just wish he would think BEFORE he opens his mouth, lol. Seems to be the opposite way. Cant blame him really, I know everyone is guilty of saying something before they think about it.

 

[pinkribbon]

My OH is like that, he get annoyed over stupid little things. He couldn't find his cigarettes this morning and took a massive fit and then texted me from work saying he was sorry lol. Wish he didn't smoke like but oh well.

 

[Yazz_n_bump]

Typical men, lol. I wouldn't worry to much if he's apolgising just tell him he's hurt your feelings and that he needs to act his age a bit more as he's going to be a father soon enough!

 

[AriannasMama]

Yeah, I told him he needs to stop saying hurtful things just cause he gets mad because its really immature, he felt bad so I got a nice back massage from him, lol.

 

[smatheson]

I wish my OH would apologize when he does that crap all he does is act like everything is fine and nothing happened