ohs sister might be m/cing

[Uvlollypop]

ive said some not nice things about ohs sister, she isnt a nice person at all and shes treated her pregnancy like a joke but i feel awful and just dont know what to say to her.

shes about 14 weeks, bleeding. went to a+e they sent her home with antibiotics saying she has water infection. today shes passing clots.

shes going to see her midwife later.

im not sure what to say to her.

 

[SJK]

ive said some not nice things about ohs sister, she isnt a nice person at all and shes treated her pregnancy like a joke but i feel awful and just dont know what to say to her.

shes about 14 weeks, bleeding. went to a+e they sent her home with antibiotics saying she has water infection. today shes passing clots.

shes going to see her midwife later.

im not sure what to say to her.

could you not just send her a text saying your thinking about her xx

 

[Hevz]

That sounds like a good idea

 

[Jo]

Just let her know you are there for her if she needs you, nothing more you can say or do really hun

 

[Uvlollypop]

ive text but havent heard anything, i feel awful

 

[Lazy Leo]

You can't worry yourself Molly. And that's not because you don't care, it's simply because you have enough in your own life and you shouldn't be taking on someone's else's worries right now.

She probably hasn't replied because she'll be in some form of shock / fear /denial /autopilot. You've text her, she knows where you are. Please, please look after yourself and don't stress too much. She'll get in touch as and when she is ready xx

In the meantime, fingers crossed that everything is alright x

 

[Uvlollypop]

have received a message not to contact her because my pregnancy is upsetting her....

 

[Jo]

 

[WelshGirl]

have received a message not to contact her because my pregnancy is upsetting her....

Hun....

You have done all you can do for now by sending the message to let her know you're there for her. It must be hard, but try not to let her reply upset you....she must be so scared & upset right now.

She'll know you are there for her....you can't do any more.

xxx xxx

 

[leeanne]

 

[Lazy Leo]

have received a message not to contact her because my pregnancy is upsetting her....

At least you know why she's not contacted you. I know it's hard. You'll both get through it somehow xx

 

[mBLACK]

to you and your OH'S sister..

 

[Uvlollypop]

thanks

 

[Lazy Leo]

Are you ok hun? I'm worried about you

 

[mrscookie]

you would think since you have been in her shoes before that she could come to you for some advice and support. Its so sad
big hugs molly xxx

 

[destiny27]

 

[Uvlollypop]

im ok just a bit unsure of things.

 

[Uvlollypop]

well this has all turned interesting. apparently shes still pregnant and it was all down to a water infection... .sounds like attention seeking to me am i bad to think like that?

 

[todteach]

Not at all. Take care of yourself hun

 

[Hevz]

well this has all turned interesting. apparently shes still pregnant and it was all down to a water infection... .sounds like attention seeking to me am i bad to think like that?

Of course not babe...she sounds like a nasty piece of work and I wouldn't be surprised if there's more attention seeking fibs along the way.

I know you can cramp and have blood in your wee but not sure how this was mistaken for a miscarriage. Then her saying she didn't want you to contact her etc....hmmmm, be wary of her