Omg I'm so mad

[Dream.dream]

So my sons dad has visits supervise at my moms house. It's across town so when I take him it takes an hour and a half to get there .

Saturday he called when we got there and said he didn't have money for gas . Did the same thing today Lat minute which is teally irritating . Well just found out why he can't afford to come

Spent all his money on an engagement Ring . He's neglected his child support worse and has been ditching his visits since he started dating her and this just pushed me over the edge . Seriously priorities ! Your kids more important hen your new girlfriend

 

[Dezireey]

What a tool. Dont let it get to you, he's not worth it. Most of the loser FOB's seem to put everything before their kids, especially themselves.

 

[Dream.dream]

Just irritating. I could make his life so much harder but I don't . I wish he would either step up an be a good dad or bugger off and let someone else be .

I just don't get what kind of girl would be with a guy who neglects his kid so much

 

[Dezireey]

Absent FOBs, who neglect their kids and behave appalingly towards their pregnant ex ( taking into consideration she never did anything wrong, apart from getting pregnant) never usually tell the truth to the next woman. We have all heard men giving sob stories about how they have kid/s and the mean and nasty ex-woman wont let him see them and SHE left him and ignores him yet makes him pay child support etc etc. These idiots are NEVER in a million years going to tell the truth to a new girlfriend. They are either going to say as little as possible, embellish the truth or lie through their teeth. My ex FOB, if he ever starts dating again, I can guarantee what he will do is not even tell her he has a kid. Spineless gits, the lot of them. I feel sorry for their new girlfriends, they have no idea what selfish men they are falling for.

 

[Ceejay123]

Awwh I'm sorry honey x

 

[gracexxx]

What a tosser! Like dezireey said don't let him get to you, he doesnt even deserve your son in his life, children are special and should mean the world to their parents.
I found out my fob left me for some other girl, and has never had anything to do with LO I spent too much time thinking about him and far too many wasted tears, for a complete twat who decided to leave his pregnant gf and have nothing to do with his own baby for just some other girl!! I'm happy hes out of our lives now useless waste of space!

 

[ZombieQueen]

I'm so sorry.. Some men are so stupid I just.. I don't have words... Urghh..


And I totally agree on the wondering what girl would want to be with a deadbeat dad... Like I can see these men lying out their asses, but seriously? If you don't visibly see the guy fighting to be in his child's life, then he's probably a pos dad.. Js.. Some women are pathetic.

 

[exoticsiren]

What an asshole. Guys are liars an selfish. The ones ive been w anyways lol. Hes the one missing out on his child.

 

[Ceejay123]

I'm so sorry.. Some men are so stupid I just.. I don't have words... Urghh..


And I totally agree on the wondering what girl would want to be with a deadbeat dad... Like I can see these men lying out their asses, but seriously? If you don't visibly see the guy fighting to be in his child's life, then he's probably a pos dad.. Js.. Some women are pathetic.

Completely agree with this. I don't understand how you can be with a guy that gives up on his kids :/ wouldn't it make you paranoid? My cousins just done it, and now she's having a baby with him.

 

[daneuse27]

Thats terrible. I dont get it either. If I were the new girlfriend, it would be important for me to see that he has a civil relationship with his ex, and most importantly is a good dad to his kids. Neglecting his kids would be a major turn off to me; shows hes selfish, irresponsible, immature and has a lack of regard for human life. Not exactly qualities I look for in a man!

 

[Ceejay123]

Thats terrible. I dont get it either. If I were the new girlfriend, it would be important for me to see that he has a civil relationship with his ex, and most importantly is a good dad to his kids. Neglecting his kids would be a major turn off to me; shows hes selfish, irresponsible, immature and has a lack of regard for human life. Not exactly qualities I look for in a man!

My oh has another son, if he'd not fought to see him I would have lost a lot of respect for him. I'd like us both to have a civil relationship with his ex, I don't understand the immature drama surrounding kids so much these days. how a man can just walk away ill never get. x