MandaC27
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Ive never written in here before. Truthfully I didn't know this place exsisted.
It's creeping up on one year since I lost my twins. Yet it feels like it was just yesterday. I cry and my heart aches and longs for them. As I write this I hold onto my beautiful newborn rainbow baby. Yet that isn't comforting? Why? I don't know. I don't know why I can't get past the loss of my twins. It was an early loss. I was still in my first trimester. I feel like their is something wrong with me. I wouldn't even let myself get attached to my baby well she was in the womb. Im guessing for fear of losing her to. But losing my twins... It destroyed me. It took something in me away something I didn't even know I had. I don't know how to deal with these emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it in person because I cry uncontrolably... At least typing it out I can put it down and come back to it when I'm composed. I just want to know who they would of been. Boys or girls? Did they look like their siblings? My husband? Me? What color were their eyes? Would they like music and school? I bet they would of been gorgeous if girls and so handsome as boys. Or maybe I would of had one of each. I go through these questions almost daily. I cry for them all the time... Even a year later.. When will the hurt stop. When Will my heart feel full again?
Please tell me I'm not alone.
It's creeping up on one year since I lost my twins. Yet it feels like it was just yesterday. I cry and my heart aches and longs for them. As I write this I hold onto my beautiful newborn rainbow baby. Yet that isn't comforting? Why? I don't know. I don't know why I can't get past the loss of my twins. It was an early loss. I was still in my first trimester. I feel like their is something wrong with me. I wouldn't even let myself get attached to my baby well she was in the womb. Im guessing for fear of losing her to. But losing my twins... It destroyed me. It took something in me away something I didn't even know I had. I don't know how to deal with these emotions. I can't talk to anyone about it in person because I cry uncontrolably... At least typing it out I can put it down and come back to it when I'm composed. I just want to know who they would of been. Boys or girls? Did they look like their siblings? My husband? Me? What color were their eyes? Would they like music and school? I bet they would of been gorgeous if girls and so handsome as boys. Or maybe I would of had one of each. I go through these questions almost daily. I cry for them all the time... Even a year later.. When will the hurt stop. When Will my heart feel full again?
Please tell me I'm not alone.