Out again.. Bfn on dollar free... 10 or 11dpo

[brittanyaliss]

I'm so sad. I really thought that this was my month being as though I had the super positive OPK on cd15.. I was having extreme cramps and nausea which I thought would lead up to my BFP this month.. Well I was wrong. I took 3 dollar tree test and all BFN... 3yrs of unexplained infertility and I officially give up. This let down is way to much to bare.

 

[popchick75]

I'm so sorry....those BFNs get harder and harder to handle as more time passes.
Hang in there tho...10/11dpo is still early. I just saw a great story on another thread where she tested BFN on 13DPO and got her BFP on 16DPO.

 

[brittanyaliss]

I'm so sorry....those BFNs get harder and harder to handle as more time passes.
Hang in there tho...10/11dpo is still early. I just saw a great story on another thread where she tested BFN on 13DPO and got her BFP on 16DPO.

That's sounds do wonderful. I just hope I finally get that news again I'm my life.

 

[popchick75]

I hope we both do I'm unexplained also. Have you had a lot of tests done? Have they found anything at all?

 

[Princess Lou]

Bare in mind that it takes 6-12 days for implantation to happen, an additional 3-4 days for hCG to be high enough to be detected on a blood test and a further 1-2 days for a HPT to register. So, 10DPO is the earliest you can get a BFP but it can take up to 18DPO to get a positive.

There is only a 35% of a BFP showing up at 10DPO.

Wait till AF is a day late then try. Too many women test before AF is due, get a BFN and get very disheartened only to find AF is a day late and they test and get a BFP.

Don't be so hard on yourself.

Good luck.

 

[brittanyaliss]

Bare in mind that it takes 6-12 days for implantation to happen, an additional 3-4 days for hCG to be high enough to be detected on a blood test and a further 1-2 days for a HPT to register. So, 10DPO is the earliest you can get a BFP but it can take up to 18DPO to get a positive.

There is only a 35% of a BFP showing up at 10DPO.

Wait till AF is a day late then try. Too many women test before AF is due, get a BFN and get very disheartened only to find AF is a day late and they test and get a BFP.

Don't be so hard on yourself.

Good luck.

Hey everyone I took a frer test and I think I seen a line

 

[popchick75]

Oooo....i see it too! Are you going to test again today?

 

[brittanyaliss]

Oooo....i see it too! Are you going to test again today?

Here's today's test

 

[popchick75]

I think you may have something there....are the lines showing up pretty quick?

 

[GemmaG]

I have no problem seeing the line on your FRER GL huni hope they darken for you and your still so early xx

 

[brittanyaliss]

I think you may have something there....are the lines showing up pretty quick?

The lines showed up within 4 mins...

 

[brittanyaliss]

I have no problem seeing the line on your FRER GL huni hope they darken for you and your still so early xx

Thanks.. I'm gonna retest when I get home

 

[tamithomas]

Bare in mind that it takes 6-12 days for implantation to happen, an additional 3-4 days for hCG to be high enough to be detected on a blood test and a further 1-2 days for a HPT to register. So, 10DPO is the earliest you can get a BFP but it can take up to 18DPO to get a positive.

There is only a 35% of a BFP showing up at 10DPO.

Wait till AF is a day late then try. Too many women test before AF is due, get a BFN and get very disheartened only to find AF is a day late and they test and get a BFP.

Don't be so hard on yourself.

Good luck.

This ^^ it's actually pretty rare to get bfp before 10dpo and even that it's usually the day of AF or around there that most women show. That's one of the misconceptions of TTC is women thinking they're all going to show right away. This only leads to let downs, anxiety and depression that is not needed. The best thing to do is try to test later on. The best is the day before or day of AF. Before that can be very misleading. My mom didn't get her bfp until 2 weeks being late. GL hope this is your month .

 

[brittanyaliss]

Bare in mind that it takes 6-12 days for implantation to happen, an additional 3-4 days for hCG to be high enough to be detected on a blood test and a further 1-2 days for a HPT to register. So, 10DPO is the earliest you can get a BFP but it can take up to 18DPO to get a positive.

There is only a 35% of a BFP showing up at 10DPO.

Wait till AF is a day late then try. Too many women test before AF is due, get a BFN and get very disheartened only to find AF is a day late and they test and get a BFP.

Don't be so hard on yourself.

Good luck.

This ^^ it's actually pretty rare to get bfp before 10dpo and even that it's usually the day of AF or around there that most women show. That's one of the misconceptions of TTC is women thinking they're all going to show right away. This only leads to let downs, anxiety and depression that is not needed. The best thing to do is try to test later on. The best is the day before or day of AF. Before that can be very misleading. My mom didn't get her bfp until 2 weeks being late. GL hope this is your month .

Thanks that really helped didn't think of it that way before. But I think I'm out anyway.