Over it.

[alison22]

My husband and I have been trying for over a year. The last three months we have been trying my obgyn had put me on Clomid. I know that the Clomid was working because I would get a period each cycle. However it wasn't fully working obviously because well..I'm not pregnant. The obgyn now would like to have my progesterone tested after ovulation to make sure my levels are high enough. Has anyone else been through this stuff? Or is anyone going through this? My husband and I skipped this month because he is on a two week deployment and is away for ovulation.

Another couple we know just got pregnant, not married, not living together, still living with mommy and daddy. I'm just so over being more than ready and it not happening and seeing all these young irresponsible couples getting exactly what they want.

I thought for sure the Clomid would do the trick and that I would be pregnant by now, but i guess it's just not that easy for us...

 

[swizzle3]

Sorry you are struggling. There are alot of women on this board that have been trying for a long time so you are definitely not alone. I think alot more women struggle with it then we think. Its just kept quiet for some reason.

 

[alison22]

I completely understand that alot of women struggle. It just seems so much easier for everyone in my life. And I think it just frustrates me more and more everytime I see an unprepared couple, that arent anywhere ready for a child. Maybe it is resentment, but I just am ready to get off Facebook and instagram and everything else and not hear about it.

 

[baby_rose]

Ughhh i get u no medical help for me yet i wonder if i even o! I took soy iso its supposed to mimic clomid so lets see how it goes not very hopeful have u ever had a mc?

 

[alison22]

No, no mc. I have haf ultrasounds, bloodwork and am scheduled for more bloodwork next month after my Clomid cycle to check progesterone levels after O. My hubby has never been checked either but I havent ever had a regular cycle.

 

[bromandapanda]

I'm really sorry to hear about your struggles Alison. Although my DH and I haven't gotten as far in this journey as you, I know all too well how it feels when people look at their significant others, and wham-o! Pregnant! I have had to calm myself in the darkest of nights and most painful moments because, I truly don't know what will happen and there are no promises. Please know, you are NOT alone.

I find it very helpful to unfollow all the people that post baby related things on fb and instagram. It will make you feel calmer and more at peace. I'm not sure if you're a person of faith, but if you are just remember God's timing is perfect. Trust me, I hate hearing it and typing it. But it's true. Frustratingly and inevitably true. I will pray for you, and I wish you all the best.