Ovulation and BD

[DanniC]

I'm very new to this and slightly worried about posting. We've been (kind of) TTC for over two years but I don't think dh and I bd enough. I ovulated yesterday and told dh that I wanted to bd. He had a bad day at work and went to bed tired. We have bd on Saturday and Monday but I still feel like we missed an opportunity. This month is the most regular we've been and I feel like we argue about bd more than anything! We've been to see a consultant and I had HSG last week, still waiting for results. If all good and tubes aren't blocked he's referring us for IUI. I would love to conceive naturally. Does anyone else argue about BD? How do I get dh to bd and not feel pressured?

 

[Deethehippy]

I don’t tend to tell my OH when I think I am approaching ovulation, I think him knowing makes it more stressful. Try to BD every other day the few days before O as sometimes day of O can be too late (can take a while for the swimmers to get in there and the egg doesn’t last long) although it’s worth trying for that day too. Good luck.