paranoid since my m/c

[becky77]

does anybody else know what i mean, but since my m/c i am really panicky about loosing my kids or me or oh dying,its like i am afraid that if i can loose one then i might loose my boys, and that scares the hell out of me, as i know that would be the end of me, but then there is no real reason for having these feelings as they are healthy boys now although i did nearly loose them both when they were very little . i guess this experience has just brought home to me how fragil life is and how easy it can be taken, hope these feelings go soon though its horrible feeling like this.
good riddance to 2008.

sorry for moaning wanted to get it of my chest.

 

[Drazic<3]

Yes, i really emphasise with what your saying. That soul clenching fear of losing loved ones. I know its easier said that done, but focusing on death can make us miss the joy of life. Don't let that fear ruin the time you do have, because no-one knows how long that will be.

 

[todteach]

I know exactly how you're feeling. After my miscarriage, I was afraid to be left alone. I thought that my husband would be taken away from me too; I was scared when he left for work, thinking he would be in some sort of horrific car crash and not come home.

I would have nightmares...........and not sleep well at all. As time goes by I'm dealing better with these feelings. Hang in there hun, it's all part of your grieving process. Thinking of you and sending you big