People already finding out? Makes me more scared

[Justinel101]

Sorry for the frequent posts! But alot of people are already figuring out I'm pregnant and I'm only 8 weeks. I've been so scared of miscarrying and I wanted to wait til 12 but it seems impossible now. I know after hearing the heart beat there's a lower rate of miscarriage but I'm still terrified that people finding out is gonna jinx it!! ):

 

[Pheonixsmummy]

People finding out definitely doesn't jinx it. In fact, all the worrying can have an affect on your baby, not telling people, so make sure you take a breather! My mom is a bit of a psycho about my baby, and she's probably told the whole world. I also told my girl friends and sister as soon as I found out, which was at 4 weeks, and I'm now at 21 weeks as of tomorrow. Hope that helps

 

[xforuiholdonx]

try not to worry hun!!

 

[teenmommy15]

im going to be 28 weeks on tuesday and my baby is doing amazing and i always hear her heartbeat and still worry about miscarrying just take a breath and think positive concentrate on the love you have for your LO and i was pretty pissed that my mom went off and told everybody but i got used to it and to tell you the truth its better they know now dont stress everything will be okay

 

[kbwebb]

I've been pregnant twice. the first time i was pregnant I miscarried. this time, my MIL didnt want anyone to know, or to buy anything before i'd had my 12 week scan. personally i don't think you can 'jinx' it. if you're going to miscarry theres nothing you can do about it, and if i'm honest your body isn't going to think 'uh oh people know now, so this baby can't live anymore'. waiting to tell people is a personal decision, and I decided to wait this time, just because I didn't want people worrying for me before i knew everything was okay and perfect on the scan.

 

[jozylynn896]

Most important thing is to not worry. Babt will be fine

 

[LavaPanda]

Hi I'm new, so I hope I'm doing this right!
But I totally understand how you feel, completely! I'm only 6 weeks and joined here for people my age as I don't really like or trust any of my peers around here.

But yeah when I found out I told my adopted dad and he told my mum. They were over the moon especially my mum. Then my mum told my real dad and brother, I wasn't too happy about that but he was pretty chilled. Then he told my grandma who I think nearly had a heart attack of happiness and she told pretty much the entire neighborhood and she is already talking about wanting to buy the pram -__-
It's like 'guuuuys, calm it down a biiiit'. I'm like you and just terrified of miscarage and didn't want to start planning anything until at least half way!
My friends at college luckily don't know as it's half term and I hope to keep it like that. I just hope the constant puking doesn't give too much away haha.

But I think kbwebb is right, if it's going to happen it's going to happen.

Good luck, congratulations and I hope you have a happy healthy 9 months