Mommy's Angel
Mommy to Angelboy 10/22/9
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Someone moved our thread to "ttc discussions and groups"
As much as we talk in here, this group is NOT a ttc discussion group!
We're women 35+ who've had either miscarriages or have been ttc for years. In my opinion this discussion group is MORE than just a discussion but a support for women of our age when there are HUNDREDS of threads for women of child-baring age who aren't having any issues whatsoever. Other women NEED this thread and it should be kept in 35+ where it can be seen by women who feel helpless or hopeless for encouragement, help through fertility issues and other emotional situations as they ttc.
THIS thread is the Origional and it's OBVIOUSELY women 35+ttc so moving the thread to discussion was a bad move on someones part.
To me it makes me feel yet again like we're being pushed aside for age and thrown in with the kids who can easily conceive. I know I'm hotheaded about this...probably making mountains out of molehills here but I just get frustrated with taking an origional HELPFUL thread for women of 35+ and throwing them in a "discussion" group as though it's just women who are 35+ discussing simple things.
It's not a simple issue to us!! Having struggled for 10 years to conceive a child and dealing with fertility issues it's not a simple subject to be thrown in a forum with women of ALL ages who haven't a clue what it's like to suffer loss after loss or negative after negative and be told your eggs are getting old. I'm hotheaded because this belongs in the 35+ forum to encourage and be seen by women who have no support at home or anywhere else.
PLEASE move the 35+ ttc #1 thread from Discussions group back where it belongs in TTC 35+ forum. Don't push us into a forum with women of childbaring ages. We women of 35+ NEED each other. It's unfair and affensive in my opinion to have moved us to a simple Discussion forum where the importance of being of encouragement and helping each other through fertility treatments is a NECESSITY that only our age group can understand!
The thread I speak of that was moved is below:
TTC #1 child 35+
As much as we talk in here, this group is NOT a ttc discussion group!
We're women 35+ who've had either miscarriages or have been ttc for years. In my opinion this discussion group is MORE than just a discussion but a support for women of our age when there are HUNDREDS of threads for women of child-baring age who aren't having any issues whatsoever. Other women NEED this thread and it should be kept in 35+ where it can be seen by women who feel helpless or hopeless for encouragement, help through fertility issues and other emotional situations as they ttc.
THIS thread is the Origional and it's OBVIOUSELY women 35+ttc so moving the thread to discussion was a bad move on someones part.
To me it makes me feel yet again like we're being pushed aside for age and thrown in with the kids who can easily conceive. I know I'm hotheaded about this...probably making mountains out of molehills here but I just get frustrated with taking an origional HELPFUL thread for women of 35+ and throwing them in a "discussion" group as though it's just women who are 35+ discussing simple things.
It's not a simple issue to us!! Having struggled for 10 years to conceive a child and dealing with fertility issues it's not a simple subject to be thrown in a forum with women of ALL ages who haven't a clue what it's like to suffer loss after loss or negative after negative and be told your eggs are getting old. I'm hotheaded because this belongs in the 35+ forum to encourage and be seen by women who have no support at home or anywhere else.
PLEASE move the 35+ ttc #1 thread from Discussions group back where it belongs in TTC 35+ forum. Don't push us into a forum with women of childbaring ages. We women of 35+ NEED each other. It's unfair and affensive in my opinion to have moved us to a simple Discussion forum where the importance of being of encouragement and helping each other through fertility treatments is a NECESSITY that only our age group can understand!
The thread I speak of that was moved is below:
TTC #1 child 35+