Positive Elective C/S Stories?

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I'm scheduled for an elective c/s at 39w for medical reasons. Lately, stories I've heard from friends about their experiences haven't been the most lovely so I was hoping to hear some stories from those who did have a good experience. I've had surgeries in the past so I'm not afraid of needles or anything, just would like some good words about ELCS.

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Hi hun sorry i cant give any experiances but i think this is a good thread. Im most likely going to hav a c section and iv never had A operation or anything so th horror stories are gettin to me too xx
 
Hi hun sorry i cant give any experiances but i think this is a good thread. Im most likely going to hav a c section and iv never had A operation or anything so th horror stories are gettin to me too xx
 
Hi hun sorry i cant give any experiances but i think this is a good thread. Im most likely going to hav a c section and iv never had A operation or anything so th horror stories are gettin to me too xx
 
I had an emergency c-section, but my experience wasn't that bad at all! The only down side was I did not get to hold my son right away, but the surgery went well (my spinal block was quick and painless) and I did not feel anything other than very minor pulling and tugging that was more uncomfortable than painful, and my recovery was quicker than I thought it would be. :thumbup:
 
Hello,

I had an elective section when I had my little boy as he was breech. I can honestly say the actual procedure was totally fine the theatre staff were amazing and kept me calm. The only thing I found hard was the waiting. I waited for hours to go into theatre as I was second on the elective list but we kept getting bumped back due to emergency sections taking priority and I don't think I was prepared mentally for that to happen but can understand others take priority. I wasn't allowed to eat or drink from the night before. I didn't feel too hungry as I think the nerves put me off eating anything but I was pretty thirsty I ended up getting out on a drip as I had waited so long. So take things to help pass the time just in case.

My recovery was totally straightforward just take regular pain relief and try and take it easy, well as easy as you can with a newborn. I think having an emergency section is a different kettle of fish. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to have been in labour for hours then have a section. So I admire any ladies who have had that experience.
 
I had an elective c section 4 weeks ago and like you all I heard about was how awful it was...... Well I can honestly say the procedure and recovery was nothing like I had expected!!! Whilst in theatre everything was so calm and relaxed the doctor told me everything that she was doing I did freak out a little because of the sensation of them pulling and tugging but they reassured me that what I was feeling was totally normal but other than that it was a really positive experience and I think if someone had told me that I would experience those sensations I would have been less freaked out about it you will feel what they are doing but absolutely no pain whatsoever quite surreal really but totally okay!!

Afterwards you will get plenty of pain meds and as soon as you can get up do it! It makes things so much easier and your recovery quicker!! I was home the following day after my section and only needed the pain meds for one week if you keep taking them at the scheduled times you should be quite comfortable...... You will be fine honey xx
 
I had a great third section. Walked into the OR, got my spinal block, had baby and then went to recovery. I was up in about 2 hours. It took a minute for the spinal to wear off. I was very happy when they took of my leg stockings that prevent clots, and took out my catheter. It was great. I was home in two days and no problems. Take the pain meds scheduled the first couple of days. And get up as soon as possible as this does make a huge difference. You will be sore when sitting down or getting up. Just ask for a little help. Slow and steady wins the race.
 
I don't have anything bad to say really about my C/S. It wasn't really "elective" or emergency I would say. I was induced at almost 42 weeks at 3 am and I never finished dilating, so ended up with a C/S around 11:00 pm that day. I wish I had just skipped the whole induction part! But I did really want a normal birth and am a little sad that didn't happen. The C/S was fine though. I was shaking and nervous, but nothing went wrong. I was aware and got to hold my baby before they rolled me out of the room! I only regretted that I didn't really get to see his first bath, etc very well because I couldn't get out of the bed to go over to him. I got out of bed and moved around before leaving the hospital and it does help a lot with recovery. I only found it hard that I couldn't get up easily to reach LO in the hospital, but DH was there helping. I hated not being able to go shower too! But if it's what you have to do, it's not so bad. Not as bad as I thought!
 
My experience was positive. I will try to find the link!
 
i had mine 10 days ago, and was a breeze, i was so nervous and worried about it but i need not have stressed, things you need to know

as per pp, lots of waiting on the morning, if your prepared for that you can enjoy the moment of just you and partner together

I had clippers on my lady parts, as i hadnt been able to wax, but i didnt care! it was done in a second

the spinal doesnt hurt just uncomfortable,

its the most amazing feeling to hear silence then your baby cry,

once baby was born we had him up with us while i was stitched up

then to recovery snuggle time with baby skin on skin, then half hour and up to my room

you will have stockings pumping on your legs which is fine, the midwives will change your pads for you, take all the drugs offered even if you feel you dont need them

you will be up and about that evening, and the next day after a few aided attempts out of bed you will be pottering about. do all you can to get mobile asap it will help you to heal faster just take it easy and listen to your body

10 days in, im up and down stairs with baby in arms, and fine, the dressing is off and now just dealing with it healing, just have slight pain from the internal healing

if i had the choice again id have a c section i dont feel ive missed out on anything and treasure my birth experience.
 
I had an emergency c-section but the c-section itself was good. I don't remember all of it but I was very much lucid and not much in pain when they did the epidural. That was something I was really scared about but I think the epidural procedure itself turned out to be the easiest part of my labor :haha: I had spent years terrified of the thing but it really wasn't nearly as bad (nowhere near!) as I expected. As for the c-section, well, once you're numb, you're well numb. Nothing scary about that part, at least not for me, as I couldn't feel a thing. I do remember my body wiggling some as they worked on me. Again, no pain. Because my situation was an emergency and I was so sick, I don't remember things like my OH being there nor seeing baby or anything like that but that's an exception. Your OH gets to be there with you after you are prepped (my first incision was already done when they brought him in) and OH can deal with baby while you are sewn up and taken to recover. You might as well take a nap at that point. :haha:

Of course, because of this, you'll have the catheter and all. That's put in after the epidural usually so it's not a problem. I don't know when they normally stop the epidural but that should leave you numb for a little bit. They'll offer you pain relief after that and I would definitely take it, even when you might think all is okay. I only accepted the morphine the first night as I was so ill and needed to sleep but the rest of the time I got by on less. It's well worth taking in the days immediately following the section as you will have to get up and move around. It might feel okay in the moment, but the evenings and nights can be tough after you've moved about so it will definitely help.

Moving about is your best bet. It sounds scary but, trust me, it's very doable. I am a wimp but I found it much easier than I expected. (This coming from someone who cannot stand the IV) It's a little daunting at first because it feels really really tight with the staples/stitches etc. there so you might need to walk a little hunched initially. Myself, my first time getting out of bed, I was hunched, sat on the shower seat, and was then able to get upright fully when getting up from the shower seat. I had spent 4 days in bed (again, you should be up sooner than that, this wasn't standard) before I could get up and by that time, there was no way anyone would stop me from getting in that shower! :haha: I was up and about as soon as I was allowed. Don't overdo it as you'll feel it... :blush:

I had my csection last Monday and am feeling quite normal. I am not doing tons but I did cook yesterday. I also threw in the baby's clothes in the laundry (don't lift the baskets! and watch how you move if you do things like that). I do things slowly and sparingly but I am amazed at how little pain I am in compared to what I was expecting. I mean, it's proper surgery after all... Evenings and mornings are always more sore for me, especially after lying down for hours. I just take my time getting up, stopping and letting my body readjust. It gets easier with every time you get up. Make sure you are well-equipped with loose clothing and underpants though as that can make you very uncomfortable quickly. Keep paracetamol closeby and you'll be fine. Just remember to take it slow. Btw, if you cough, sneeze, or laugh hard, it might feel like everything opened up inside for a few seconds there but I assure you, it didn't. Try and put counter pressure on your abdomen when you feel it about to happen, either with a pillow, hands, etc.

Really, I've never had any medical procedures really, not even a cavity feeling and I am majorly afraid of pain. I've hurt more from the torn tendons in my feet than I did from this surgery (with the exception of when I sneeze :haha:)...

Good luck! :hugs:
 
We have a good chance of needing to go the cs route due to GD and I feel a lot better after reading these posts. I'm worried and I know there's a lot more recovery time, but DH is delighted thinking he may get to see LO early, lol. I have a question for US moms: I know the norm maternity leave is 6 weeks, does that change for cs births?
 
Sometimes they will do eight weeks but you are usually fine at six.
 
Mine was planned for week 39 and was very lucky. The worst part was probably the injection which was more of a fear of needles thing. Even my recovery was perfect I was walking about after 24 hours. Don't listen to the bad stories like I did. If its planned then there is not much that can go wrong. Good luck and enjoy meeting your miracle xxx
 
i had mine 10 days ago, and was a breeze, i was so nervous and worried about it but i need not have stressed, things you need to know

as per pp, lots of waiting on the morning, if your prepared for that you can enjoy the moment of just you and partner together

I had clippers on my lady parts, as i hadnt been able to wax, but i didnt care! it was done in a second

the spinal doesnt hurt just uncomfortable,

its the most amazing feeling to hear silence then your baby cry,

once baby was born we had him up with us while i was stitched up

then to recovery snuggle time with baby skin on skin, then half hour and up to my room

you will have stockings pumping on your legs which is fine, the midwives will change your pads for you, take all the drugs offered even if you feel you dont need them

you will be up and about that evening, and the next day after a few aided attempts out of bed you will be pottering about. do all you can to get mobile asap it will help you to heal faster just take it easy and listen to your body

10 days in, im up and down stairs with baby in arms, and fine, the dressing is off and now just dealing with it healing, just have slight pain from the internal healing

if i had the choice again id have a c section i dont feel ive missed out on anything and treasure my birth experience.

your csection story sounds just like mine and I also had polyhydramnios with baby being transverse and my daughter was born 23rd august 2011 :) your like me too id have another section tomorrow I didn't feel like id missed out not giving birth I loved my section and your right get up and be mobile as quick as you can it really helps. :)
 
Thanks for all the replies so far ladies, very informative and as I've been swaying towards an elective c/s, it's sure put some worries to rest!
 

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