Hello ladies thought it would help someone along the way to know how the mind can make labour easy.in my case ui could not get passed 9cm but I really got through my labour so easily because of refusing to be scared.the biggest pain is fear of the pain.i had to have this baby as soon as so when my date came around for 20th may I decide to dtd with my husband and tried over a week before the due date.this just made my plug come out. I was very happy that my waters didnt break as my first child was a long labour and my water had gone with him so they weren't going to let this labour be very long..so when water breaks it means infection and fear of a csection.i started contractions 12 mins apart at 1am after having sex then went on to sleep cuz I was getting that fear and had to do something so I slept.at 5 am they were 5 mins apart.it felt like a strong period pain.i called my sis and sat on my ball.my contractions went from 5 mins to 3every 3mins.i got in the car picked up my other sis on the way and brought some munchies..through all this my contractions came painfully but I counted through and chanted a personal reading of my own.it helps as I closed my eyes and remembered the day i went Blackpool beach and laughed and had a picnic. I was suprised at how I was coping
I got to the hospital they strapped me up and said I had a csection before so cant move as my baby has to be monitored. .but my contractions went from 2 mins to 5mins again I knew it wss because I was lying down like a patatoe just doing nothing.the midwife was pressing me to lying down but I just wanted to move about.i became angry but I knew there was no way I could move she wasnt going to let me.i sat there and chanted through uo to when they checked and I was 7cm I was dying so I asked for the epidural. It never worked though my woman bits were killing but my stomach and legs were numb.i went through all the labour in pain. By 7pm they said if I dont dialate in 2 hours I have to have a csection.i prayed and nothing happened.9cm and no baby.the consultant came in when I was crying that I felt like a big failure she looked at my urine and blood was everywhere my bladder was rupturing she said and pushed me with so much anger to have a csection.i agreed and when I went in my blood pressure dropped I lost consciousness..my sis told me she thought i was going to die as I was not responding. They made my blood pressure bk to normal through a drip and I came round. My son was now born and I looked at him as he was taken to be seen.at this point I realised my life was given back to me so I could be with my two children. I prayed for normal birth but whatever happened always happened for the best. They stitched my bladder up and took me back.my son is now three weeks old and im thankful to have a calm and loving child.recovery has been so quick compared to last time except I hated when they told me to get up and start walking I cud have killed the nurse that night I cried to sleep and thought I will be depressed forever but I am not suffer ing from post natal depression like my first time round.however my toddler is very jelous and that is a new challenge I face which does make me scared and tired of having two children. Thank u to all for ur support...
I got to the hospital they strapped me up and said I had a csection before so cant move as my baby has to be monitored. .but my contractions went from 2 mins to 5mins again I knew it wss because I was lying down like a patatoe just doing nothing.the midwife was pressing me to lying down but I just wanted to move about.i became angry but I knew there was no way I could move she wasnt going to let me.i sat there and chanted through uo to when they checked and I was 7cm I was dying so I asked for the epidural. It never worked though my woman bits were killing but my stomach and legs were numb.i went through all the labour in pain. By 7pm they said if I dont dialate in 2 hours I have to have a csection.i prayed and nothing happened.9cm and no baby.the consultant came in when I was crying that I felt like a big failure she looked at my urine and blood was everywhere my bladder was rupturing she said and pushed me with so much anger to have a csection.i agreed and when I went in my blood pressure dropped I lost consciousness..my sis told me she thought i was going to die as I was not responding. They made my blood pressure bk to normal through a drip and I came round. My son was now born and I looked at him as he was taken to be seen.at this point I realised my life was given back to me so I could be with my two children. I prayed for normal birth but whatever happened always happened for the best. They stitched my bladder up and took me back.my son is now three weeks old and im thankful to have a calm and loving child.recovery has been so quick compared to last time except I hated when they told me to get up and start walking I cud have killed the nurse that night I cried to sleep and thought I will be depressed forever but I am not suffer ing from post natal depression like my first time round.however my toddler is very jelous and that is a new challenge I face which does make me scared and tired of having two children. Thank u to all for ur support...
