Millie came home on 0.2 oxygen and to say I was nervous is an understatement!
I felt so worried about the responsibility of having an oxygen dependant baby at home without any medical staff, and I could not accept that she was well enough to leave hospital. It seemed like such a contraditction, I kept thinking that if she needed oxygen then she was not healthy enough yet to leave hospital. However I was also desperate to get home as she had been in hospital for over four months, so I was excited too, a strange combination really!
Think of it as a compliment in a way, as if the medical team thought you were not up to the responsibility, they would take no chances, so they must think you are capable of doing it. Also, as bob says, it really is not as scary or difficult as you build it up to be in your head, and it soon becomes second nature.
Because I was so nervous about it, the hospital arranged for me to meet with another mum and her 02 dependant baby boy, chatting to her really gave me the re-assurance that I needed, I think that really helped, dunno if the hospitals could arrange anything like that for you?
Millie came home on 10th December and by early June she was 02 free, I won't say it was not a relief to be able to go out without the canister etc, but it really was nowhere near as bad as I expected. In some ways it was actually quite nice, as people would see how tiny she was, and the 02 and would wish her well, or share their experience of the prem niece etc.....honestly it took ages to get my big Tesco shop done!!
Idoesn't sound like they have made the decision to sent your son home in 02 yet, and you may well find that all of a sudden he turns the corner. I think quite a lot of people on here had the possibility of discharge on 02 mentioned, but was not necassary in the end, I bet he proves the doctors wrong! If you have any questions pm me!