Praises to our DH/SO

[HearMyPrayers]

What do you love most about your DH/SO? How have they exceeded your expectations in support during your LTTTC?

Sometimes its nice to praise what we are blessed with already!

My DH is funny, he has a light easy personality

He makes me laugh

He always knows the right pillows to grab after BDíng and always helps prop me in the right position and sits with me for the 30 mins I lay there with the blood rushing out of my feet in what I'm sure is the most unflattering looking positions sometimes lol

He always tells me I'm beautiful

He makes me feel I'm beautiful

He singings to me when I'm sad or scared

He loves me for everything I am and even what I'm not

He can COOK and WELL!

He is a man, a real man.

He is my true love

 

[xxshellsxx]

What a lovely idea

mine is:

quick witted! (too quick for his good sometimes lol)

Very funny, life is never dull

Tells me i'm beautiful

Loved me at my heaviest weight

Still loves me now i've slimmed down

Doesn't care who's listening when he says he loves me

Kisses me every morning and tells me he loves me before he leaves for work (he says if anything (god forbid) should happen on his way to work he wants those to be the last words he ever says to me)

He's a rugged, tall, broad man Mmmmmm

he's a terrible cook, but loves my cooking lol

He's got a heart of gold

But most of all he'd do ANYTHING for me

 

[HearMyPrayers]

What a lovely idea

mine is:

quick witted! (too quick for his good sometimes lol)

Very funny, life is never dull

Tells me i'm beautiful

Loved me at my heaviest weight

Still loves me now i've slimmed down

Doesn't care who's listening when he says he loves me

Kisses me every morning and tells me he loves me before he leaves for work (he says if anything (god forbid) should happen on his way to work he wants those to be the last words he ever says to me)

He's a rugged, tall, broad man Mmmmmm

he's a terrible cook, but loves my cooking lol

He's got a heart of gold

But most of all he'd do ANYTHING for me

LOVE THIS!! Sounds like an awesome man

and isn't there just something about a tall rugged manly man!

 

[ces2008]

My DH is:

My best friend (from the moment we started dating 11 years ago, when I was 15 and him 16)
My rock!
Supports me in anything I do
Takes care of me when Im sick
Holds me when I need to cry
Forces me to admit myself to the hospitalwhen my Depression gets bad for my safety
Listens to me vent about anything
Is great with kids
But most of all, when I talk about not knowing how much more Emotional pain I can handle from Infertility, he tells me I cant give up! That it will be worth it in the end! That I can not let go of my dream!

 

[xxshellsxx]

What a lovely idea

mine is:

quick witted! (too quick for his good sometimes lol)

Very funny, life is never dull

Tells me i'm beautiful

Loved me at my heaviest weight

Still loves me now i've slimmed down

Doesn't care who's listening when he says he loves me

Kisses me every morning and tells me he loves me before he leaves for work (he says if anything (god forbid) should happen on his way to work he wants those to be the last words he ever says to me)

He's a rugged, tall, broad man Mmmmmm

he's a terrible cook, but loves my cooking lol

He's got a heart of gold

But most of all he'd do ANYTHING for me

LOVE THIS!! Sounds like an awesome man

and isn't there just something about a tall rugged manly man!

I love that smilie!! My man was a diamond in the rough when i met him and i'm slowly polishing that diamond to a sparkly gem... with a few rough edges kept in

 

[J_Lynn]

My husband is definitely my best friend. He's my soul mate, my team mate, my coach, my therapist, my venting machine, my provider, my everything.

He is with me at every appointment, he helps me with anything around the house, he lets me cry and scream and make a big deal out of little things. He calls me every day on the way home and we never go a day without telling each other we love you at least like 100 times.

He's tall, and scruffy, and manly, and strong, and is the perfect balance between country and city. I love his smell, his smile, his eyes, the way he holds me, our little pet names, how we speak to each other, how we can know what the other is thinking without even being in the same room. I love that he wants us to have a child and acts like this is his first, even though it's not - he loves me for me, no matter what I look like, how much money I make, if I get out of my PJs all day or not, if I am starting to get little wrinkles (ugh, 30!) around my eyes.

I love that I don't have to wear makeup around him, how I don't have to act like a lady around him behind closed doors - I can cuss and be innapropriate all I want and he doesn't think any less of me. I love that he will defend me to the end and he will destroy anyone who ever hurt me without hesitation.

I love that he's a wonderful father, which makes me know that I picked the right man to marry and settle down with. I love that he had his life together when we met and I love that he's stable and had a fantastic raising from a wonderful woman and man I never got the chance to meet before he got his wings (my husband was 10).

There just isn't a single thing that I don't love about my husband.

 

[amy8686]

Aw, I LOVE this thread. Great idea.

My wonderful husband:

-Makes me laugh, especially when he knows I need it

-Doesn't let me blame myself for our fertility struggles

-Makes time for us to hang out together every day, even when he has a new video game that he wants to play

-Ignores my bad behavior when I'm stressed/anxious/depressed and get irrationally snippy with him.

-Gives the BEST hugs. He squeezes the worry right out of me.

-Brings me back to optimism and perspective when I start spiraling into negativity

-Has been by my side at every doctor appointment, no matter how busy he is

Thank goodness for great significant others. I can't imagine going through this process without such an excellent partner in crime.

 

[HearMyPrayers]

My DH is:

My best friend (from the moment we started dating 11 years ago, when I was 15 and him 16)
My rock!
Supports me in anything I do
Takes care of me when Im sick
Holds me when I need to cry
Forces me to admit myself to the hospitalwhen my Depression gets bad for my safety
Listens to me vent about anything
Is great with kids
But most of all, when I talk about not knowing how much more Emotional pain I can handle from Infertility, he tells me I cant give up! That it will be worth it in the end! That I can not let go of my dream!

He sounds amazing! you've got a good guy honey told tight!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

What a lovely idea

mine is:

quick witted! (too quick for his good sometimes lol)

Very funny, life is never dull

Tells me i'm beautiful

Loved me at my heaviest weight

Still loves me now i've slimmed down

Doesn't care who's listening when he says he loves me

Kisses me every morning and tells me he loves me before he leaves for work (he says if anything (god forbid) should happen on his way to work he wants those to be the last words he ever says to me)

He's a rugged, tall, broad man Mmmmmm

he's a terrible cook, but loves my cooking lol

He's got a heart of gold

But most of all he'd do ANYTHING for me

LOVE THIS!! Sounds like an awesome man

and isn't there just something about a tall rugged manly man!

I love that smilie!! My man was a diamond in the rough when i met him and i'm slowly polishing that diamond to a sparkly gem... with a few rough edges kept in

LOL!! I agree my man wasn't the most romantic or sensitive guy but I'm curbing it, but keeping him the same guy I feel in love with!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

My husband is definitely my best friend. He's my soul mate, my team mate, my coach, my therapist, my venting machine, my provider, my everything.

He is with me at every appointment, he helps me with anything around the house, he lets me cry and scream and make a big deal out of little things. He calls me every day on the way home and we never go a day without telling each other we love you at least like 100 times.

He's tall, and scruffy, and manly, and strong, and is the perfect balance between country and city. I love his smell, his smile, his eyes, the way he holds me, our little pet names, how we speak to each other, how we can know what the other is thinking without even being in the same room. I love that he wants us to have a child and acts like this is his first, even though it's not - he loves me for me, no matter what I look like, how much money I make, if I get out of my PJs all day or not, if I am starting to get little wrinkles (ugh, 30!) around my eyes.

I love that I don't have to wear makeup around him, how I don't have to act like a lady around him behind closed doors - I can cuss and be innapropriate all I want and he doesn't think any less of me. I love that he will defend me to the end and he will destroy anyone who ever hurt me without hesitation.

I love that he's a wonderful father, which makes me know that I picked the right man to marry and settle down with. I love that he had his life together when we met and I love that he's stable and had a fantastic raising from a wonderful woman and man I never got the chance to meet before he got his wings (my husband was 10).

There just isn't a single thing that I don't love about my husband.

You go girl! It sounds like you have an amazing support line in your DH and an endless love! Precious I loved everything you said!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Aw, I LOVE this thread. Great idea.

My wonderful husband:

-Makes me laugh, especially when he knows I need it

-Doesn't let me blame myself for our fertility struggles

-Makes time for us to hang out together every day, even when he has a new video game that he wants to play

-Ignores my bad behavior when I'm stressed/anxious/depressed and get irrationally snippy with him.

-Gives the BEST hugs. He squeezes the worry right out of me.

-Brings me back to optimism and perspective when I start spiraling into negativity

-Has been by my side at every doctor appointment, no matter how busy he is

Thank goodness for great significant others. I can't imagine going through this process without such an excellent partner in crime.

Your absolutely right, these men have a lot to put up with when we are injecting ourselves with hormones and we can tend to become monsters and I'm sure some days they are like WTF but they stay true to us and stick by our sides. You hubs sounds awesome and I can hear the love! I love this thread too brings everything back into perspective!

 

[ces2008]

My DH is:

My best friend (from the moment we started dating 11 years ago, when I was 15 and him 16)
My rock!
Supports me in anything I do
Takes care of me when Im sick
Holds me when I need to cry
Forces me to admit myself to the hospitalwhen my Depression gets bad for my safety
Listens to me vent about anything
Is great with kids
But most of all, when I talk about not knowing how much more Emotional pain I can handle from Infertility, he tells me I cant give up! That it will be worth it in the end! That I can not let go of my dream!

He sounds amazing! you've got a good guy honey told tight!

Thanks! Yes he is amazing!