poppy
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For those of you ttc over 35, do you think you have a better chance of conceiving if you already have children and had no problem getting pregnant than someone ttc number one over 35?
I know this sounds an odd question, but it's just that we are considering ttc number 3 in a few years time. I am turning 34 this week and ideally would like to ttc number 3 when I am 35/36 but am worried this is leaving things too late. I would not be able to ttc earlier as a) My youngest would still be a baby and b) my hubbie would absolutely flat out refuse to ttc earlier - I think he needs a bit of time where our toddlers are sleeping through the night etc before we had another baby (I would ttc earlier though!). So when we do ttc I would be in this section.
I do worry about declining fertility and problems etc but am wondering what your view is on ttc subsequent children over 35 when you already have children and have had no problems. I conceived both of my children on the first month ttc (one at 30 and one at 33), but realise that things do change the older you get. Does your fertility drastically nose dive at 35 or is it a gradual thing into your 40s? I think it is annoying how when you get into your 30s your are bombarded with negative information - although, I do realise that you need to know the facts about things. I would have liked to have started earlier, but as my DH is three years younger than me, he would not have entertained having kids younger than he was when we had our first (he was 27 when my eldest was born).
I really do want a third child but do feel blessed to have two healthy boys and would still feel blessed if we did not have a third child (OH is still a bit on the fence regarding this, but says that when our youngest turns two he may consider ttc for a third!). I do think that if we do not at least try for a third, I may regret it and feel there is a person missing from our family - I always thought I would have three kids (I am from a family of three kids myself, so maybe that is why?).
Sorry for the long rambling post.
Good luck in your journeys and hope you all get your BFPs really soon.
xxx
I know this sounds an odd question, but it's just that we are considering ttc number 3 in a few years time. I am turning 34 this week and ideally would like to ttc number 3 when I am 35/36 but am worried this is leaving things too late. I would not be able to ttc earlier as a) My youngest would still be a baby and b) my hubbie would absolutely flat out refuse to ttc earlier - I think he needs a bit of time where our toddlers are sleeping through the night etc before we had another baby (I would ttc earlier though!). So when we do ttc I would be in this section.
I do worry about declining fertility and problems etc but am wondering what your view is on ttc subsequent children over 35 when you already have children and have had no problems. I conceived both of my children on the first month ttc (one at 30 and one at 33), but realise that things do change the older you get. Does your fertility drastically nose dive at 35 or is it a gradual thing into your 40s? I think it is annoying how when you get into your 30s your are bombarded with negative information - although, I do realise that you need to know the facts about things. I would have liked to have started earlier, but as my DH is three years younger than me, he would not have entertained having kids younger than he was when we had our first (he was 27 when my eldest was born).
I really do want a third child but do feel blessed to have two healthy boys and would still feel blessed if we did not have a third child (OH is still a bit on the fence regarding this, but says that when our youngest turns two he may consider ttc for a third!). I do think that if we do not at least try for a third, I may regret it and feel there is a person missing from our family - I always thought I would have three kids (I am from a family of three kids myself, so maybe that is why?).
Sorry for the long rambling post.
Good luck in your journeys and hope you all get your BFPs really soon.
xxx