I just chatted generally to her, established that she didn't have others Rubys age because that was a no no to me, and told her about my parenting 'style' and gauged her reaction to it tbh. I told her the kind of things that are huge no nos to me such as leaving her to cry, trying to get her to eat more than she wants, etc. We chatted about her feelings about discipline even though that is not applicable at Ruby's age it will be in the future. Basically I established that she was on the same page as me about looking after babies / children, and then the rest of my questions were just practical things such as...
- Supplying food - what kinds of foods is she ok to prepare / heat up
- What if I am delayed at work and am late to collect her
- How she wants me to make payment and when
- Checked she had a suitable high chair / booster seat
- Asked if she needed me to supply blankets / sheets for the travel cot for naps
- What should I pack in Ruby's bag each day