Elli21 -when is your quit date?
Me and DH both stopped last Monday -now day 12 - and haven't killed any-one yet lol.
I have gone cold turkey, DH is using gum.
I had a few very stressful days to begin with and was very crabbit, with everyone but it passed and I am missing it less n less all the time. You need to break all the habits associated with smoking. I dont drink coffee any more -a coffee without a ciggie for me was torture lol.
I haven't had a good drink yet (although did have a glass of champagne last week and a couple of vodkas at weekend and was fine) -that will be hard. but then I am so determined to be smoke free for ttc in a few months.
Once I am pg it will be much easier of course too, i have always stopped smoking prior to each pregnancy, fell pg quickly and then couldn't stand the smell /taste yuk!!
Just cannot believe that EACH time after finished BF-ing ( and returning to work incidently) I stared smoking again. NOT THIS TIME!!
we are putting the money away too - that's my fund to cover my mat leave when my unpaid leave kicks in - I can take 26 weeks paid, and then up to 13 weeks SMP only and 13 weeks unpaid leave, but couldn't afford that without savings (so that should be minimum £800 by the time we start ttc and another £2000 minimum - if I fall pg straight away - by time paid mat leav starts)
So thats a very tempting offer -£2800 towards extra time off with my LO to stop smoking/ smell better/ prolong life/ prevent illness OR keep smoking and go back to work earlier, smelling of smoke and witht the chance of developing illness lol.
Best of luck, when you do start to stop, and remember if you do fall off the wagon, keep trying. Nevr give up, giving up. It will be worth it in the end.