crazydiamond
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I didn't tell any of my friends or family that I was planning a homebirth in advance as I didn't want to be put off by any negativity.
Anyway I had a brilliant home water birth on the 7th January which went pretty much to plan. When people started asking about my birth I decided to tell them that I had a homebirth.
I was surprised to find the reaction in most cases was complete shock. The first response was 'was it planned'. I then got you 'must have been really brave, especially with a first baby' and then in some cases 'you were really lucky, it could have gone so wrong'.
I am getting so annoyed with these reactions. I was not brave - for me going in to hospital and risking an induction (which was what the hospital wanted me to have) would have been much more scary and as for luck the likelihood of things going wrong would have been much higher if they induced me before I was ready when no complications were presenting.
Sorry just wanted to rant.
Anyway I had a brilliant home water birth on the 7th January which went pretty much to plan. When people started asking about my birth I decided to tell them that I had a homebirth.
I was surprised to find the reaction in most cases was complete shock. The first response was 'was it planned'. I then got you 'must have been really brave, especially with a first baby' and then in some cases 'you were really lucky, it could have gone so wrong'.
I am getting so annoyed with these reactions. I was not brave - for me going in to hospital and risking an induction (which was what the hospital wanted me to have) would have been much more scary and as for luck the likelihood of things going wrong would have been much higher if they induced me before I was ready when no complications were presenting.
Sorry just wanted to rant.