Recently had a miscarriage!

[JessicaP]

Just wanted to say hi!

I had a miscarriage 5 weeks ago. We went for our first scan to find out how far we were and they could not find a heart beat. We were 6 weeks. I had to wait two weeks before another scan. The end of the week i started bleeding and spent all weekend in and out of hospital.

Since all this I have been back and forth to the hospital and doctors. I have had three positive pregnancy test results since my miscarriage. I decided not to have a d&c as i thought it would not take long to miscarry naturally (i was wrong) it feels like iv been going through this for years!

Iv got another scan and appointment at the early pregnancy unit in two more weeks.

Iv been feeling really lonely and very tearful even though i have a loving fiance and family.

xxx

 

[Lady_J]

im so sorry to hear of your loss ... ... when i miscarried i felt like a miscarriage was probably one of the most loneliest times to go through. it dont matter how many people you have around you you still feel lonely. the tears are natural when your heart is hurting, if you need to cry girl then cry. if you ever want to talk send me a message. my thoughts are with you. xx

 

[JessicaP]

Thank you! its just nice talk to someone who understan

xxx

 

[buffycat]

hey....

i'm so so sorry to hear of your loss......

mcs are so lonely, but everyone at bnb was so wonderful throughout my mcs.....

take care....

 

[Lady_J]

Its ok, one thing i realised is that nobody told me that i was going to feel like i was being pulled in 20 different ways emotionally. With your hormones still racing and your body going through such a hard time, you end up feeling exhausted. Miscarriages are often very painful for both the mind and for the body. Make sure you take some time out for 'you' time, and find peace at your own speed. xx

 

[JessicaP]

Thank you so much!

xxx

 

[JessicaP]

I feel exactly the same! I have my good times and bad times! I just dont know what to do with myself. Im a Teaching Assistant and am off at the minute but are dreading going back. Everyone at school are great but i feel like i cant do my job!

I find it hard at night as i can not sleep and end up crying to sleep as i cant stop thinking about baby and the day we had our scan and they told us we had lost it!

xxx

 

[Naya69]

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[jenn2282]

it's okay to cry i still do and it's been 8 weeks since i lost Skyler, it's getting much better now, but thats only been in the last few weeks, the 1st 5 weeks i like cried non stop, i'd see a pregnant lady and cry, see a baby and cry. I can deal with seeing babies now, pregnant woman still make me sad.

it will get better just take your own time we are all differnt. And it's okay to cry or be mad or whatever you feel.

 

[lauraperrysan]

i am so sorry for your loss. miscarriage is a very traumatic time and the way you feel now is completly normal. it does get easier i have found that once I had finished bleeding i instantly felt better because it means i could move on and focus on ttc again. Unfortunately it hasn't worked out for me yet, i had my 4th m/c last week but it's very rare to have so many so i am sure next time you will be fine. M/c is so much more common than you would think but i know that doesn't make it any easier. I found going back to work helped me keep strong and stopped me from spending the whole day sad and crying.
If ever you want to chat just pm me. Sending you a massive hug!

Laura xxx

 

[borntobeamum]

oh hunni, im so sorry, time does drag, when you are feeling low its worse.

We are all here for you, someone is always about if you ever need a chat or advise.

Sending hugs to you and your angel

xxx

 

[Jemma_x]

So sorry for your loss

 

[catfromaus]

So sorry for what has happened. I found that being on this forum helped. So did getting back to work. I am a teacher, and I thought it would be hard, but it helps the time go faster. The only times I am sad now is when I am at home

Cat
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[beanz]

Hi jessica, sorry to hear your story. I was told at 7 weeks 4 days that I had bleeding in my uterus and no heartbeat and to expect to miscarry. This was a week ago and I have still had no bleeding. Am having a scan tomorrow where I expect them to tell me I will need to take pills to get the miscarriage started. I know how awful it is waiting for something to happen

hope you are ok.