Relationship books

[frankyzw]

Hi ladies,

Sometime ago after failed relationships, I realised I was missing something and so decided to educate myself. I bought a number of e-books on relationships, some , others . But the result is that I've since learned a lot and will avoid repeating the same mistakes in future.

I would like to share some with you. So if there's anyone interested in my offer, just send me a PM. Cheers!

 

[Laura2919]

Im interested in them lol! I would like to see where I am going wrong. Will PM you now!

 

[bloodbinds]

Luckily for me, i know it's not me who has gone wrong - it's him! Lol. All my other relationships have been quite good actually, but being only 20, none of them were going to last forever, but i'm on good terms with all my exs, (apart from FOB!) because i had good, healthy relationships that just fizzled out to be honest. And i'd probably still be with FOB if i hadn't gotten pregnant, but because i was pregnant i wanted to give Bella the best of everything, which meant leaving the not so great FOB, as though i enjoyed him as a boyfriend, a good father he would not be :-/

I don't think any relationship book can tell you what you are doing wrong, or what to do better. You are who you are, and if you make 'mistakes' in a relationship, then that is probably because it's part of who you are, and if you have to change that to get a relationship to work, then i think you're just not in the right relationship. Does that make sense? :-S Lol. But if you think it's helping you, then that is great x

 

[Laura2919]

I am downloading them now! Lol. I will have a little read up of them... It may not be me but it would be nice to see what the problems are hehe

 

[Laura2919]

Oooo I am gonna print these off. Read a little section so I will rather print them to read in bed. Thanks huns

 

[frankyzw]

You're most welcome Laura!

bloodbinds hun, there's always something to learn. If we learn how to make great meals, how to drive etc doesn't it also make sense to learn how to have great relationships??
It's just books, if you think it's rubbish then toss it, but not before you've read, lol

 

[Laura2919]

I think I have some learning to do! Like being able to give and take and all that! I know I have faults so I plan to see if these books can help me fix them! lol

 

[bloodbinds]

Yeah i used to have loads of relationship books which is why i'm saying they dont work for me - wouldnt judge 'em before i read them! Lol. Like i said, if they work for other people, then that's great! But personally i think somone would have to know me quite well to be able to tell me what is wrong in my relationships, as they are very individual to each person i think. Like Laura mentioning give and take, but there is always different versions of give and take, and exceptions to every rule. The books that i've read have siad things like 'this is how you give and take in a relationship' - but every relationship is different so i don't see how it can say that - if you know what i mean? Like when we say every baby is different as baby books say 'this is how to get your baby to sleep' when we all know there are many many ways, as every baby and parent is different, so is our relationship. So i don't read the relationship books as i don't think they can tell us how to do it unless they look at the actual relationship itself. Dunno if i'm making any sense, lol. But yeah, that is just me i guess!

 

[frankyzw]

Yeah, I get you bloodbinds. Each to their own i suppose. All good

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah i used to have loads of relationship books which is why i'm saying they dont work for me - wouldnt judge 'em before i read them! Lol. Like i said, if they work for other people, then that's great! But personally i think somone would have to know me quite well to be able to tell me what is wrong in my relationships, as they are very individual to each person i think. Like Laura mentioning give and take, but there is always different versions of give and take, and exceptions to every rule. The books that i've read have siad things like 'this is how you give and take in a relationship' - but every relationship is different so i don't see how it can say that - if you know what i mean? Like when we say every baby is different as baby books say 'this is how to get your baby to sleep' when we all know there are many many ways, as every baby and parent is different, so is our relationship. So i don't read the relationship books as i don't think they can tell us how to do it unless they look at the actual relationship itself. Dunno if i'm making any sense, lol. But yeah, that is just me i guess!

I suppose your right in a way there hun. Didnt think of it like that lol. If every baby is different every relationship and person is different so sometimes the books dont work!

I need a book to read for bed so will give it a crack It might have some really funny points where I go haha, if only that happened hehe! Or it might be good. Ya never know I will let you know hehe!

 

[Laura2919]

Or I could print it off, wrap it up and give it to FOB for fathers day

 

[bloodbinds]

Or I could print it off, wrap it up and give it to FOB for fathers day

LMAO!!!

 

[frankyzw]

Or I could print it off, wrap it up and give it to FOB for fathers day

That'd be so cheeky

 

[Laura2919]

Haha! I could just see his face!

 

[bloodbinds]

I think that is actually quite a good idea! But what i may do is buy a 'how to be a good father' book for my FOB and send it him for fathers day!!! Lol. or maybe 'fatherhood for dummies'!!! Hehe

 

[Laura2919]

I think that is actually quite a good idea! But what i may do is buy a 'how to be a good father' book for my FOB and send it him for fathers day!!! Lol. or maybe 'fatherhood for dummies'!!! Hehe

Give him both!

 

[suzanne108]

Maybe you should also offer these books to the people in relationships who are having problems. x

 

[frankyzw]

Maybe you should also offer these books to the people in relationships who are having problems. x

yes definitely, the books also apply to those in relationships.