sad update

[susan36]

hi ladies think ill be joing you, got my bfp on sat and confirmed it today with a stronger superdrug test , im terrified i had a mmc at 10weeks in june, now im newley preg and terrified , im scared to change my ticker incase i jinx it , is this normal to feel like this , my last baby would be 37 weeks now , im so scared to get happy or enjoy this baby , am i nuts thanks ladies

 

[hb1]

No - you're not nuts - completely natural to feel like this - everyone is here to support you when you're worried and cheer along with you in your happy excited moments.

Congratulations on your BFP!!!!

hx

 

[kanga]

Congratulations xxxxxxx

It's perfectly normal to feel anxious but it will ease off as the weeks go by. I'm with you on the ticker, I daren't put one up either

xx

 

[susan36]

thanks ladies , i have so much emotions just now , happy scared , nervous ,
hb1 i mind you from when i was in first tri , its went in so fast ,

 

[hb1]

It gets faster I think once you get to second tri and once you get to V day it goes crazy - I think it depends a lot on your perspective in relation to the losses you experience.

hx

 

[secretbaby]

CONGRATULATIONS.

I too think what you are feeling is perfectly normal after what you have been through (((hugs))). Don't change your tickler until you feel ready - or just add a new one to go alongside it (i am rubbish at technology so don't even have one). I haven't put my babies due date on anything - haven't bought a calander for next year, and haven't put it in my work diary (which is a acadmic one so has next year in) as I lost my last son at 27 weeks and it was so hard turning over the calander and getting to August and seeing 'baby due date, hospital due date' all over it.

Hope all goes well xx

 

[cgweegee]

Congratulations! Yea, I'm pretty sure it's completely normal. I didn't start to relax until the second tri and even then not completely.

 

[susan36]

thanks ladies , had a terrible day bought tescos new digi tests and not preg argggg so got hubby to take me for a cbd and got 1-2 weeks , once i get my first scan and see my lo is ok ill stop worrying , i hope , and congrat to all you ladies on your pregs

 

[susan36]

well ladies looks like am back to ttc , woke up bleeding this morning and digi has went to not pregnant , looks like its been a chemical , look forward to joining you all again

 

[hb1]

so sorry Susan

take care

hx

 

[doddy0402]

so sorry hun. good luck.x

 

[cacahuete]

I hope you are ok, the same thing happened to me in sept, I got a faint positive on the first response, then I went and got the digi ones, and it said 1 to 2 weeks, and a couple of days later it said 2 to 3, but I still had a weird feeling, so I did another one the next day and it said 1 to 2, and I checked my temp, and it had dropped way down, and later that day I started bleeding, if you want to ever talk, it sounds like we have been through similar situations.
I hope your ok xx