Scans

[Picksbaby]

Hi girls, I had a early chemical miscarriage last month 13th march at 3weeks 5days and I've just recently found out I've conceived again! Two weeks later. Bit of a shock but very grateful anyways I'm wanting to book a early scan at 8weeks I've found a few places and I'm more than willing to go private just to see my healthy pickle. Anyways do you think it will Jinxing it if I book it tomorrow with me only being 4weeks? Thanks

 

[ready4family]

Book it! Nothing wrong with planning ahead

 

[Maxparedesmom]

I agree ! Book away

 

[Picksbaby]

I'm just scared something will happen during that time? I don't really feel pregnant they only pregnant thing is the beautiful two lines on the tests I keep doing

 

[ready4family]

I feel like each pregnancy deserves excitement like it's the first. Yes, I do worry occasionally that something will go wrong, but yet if this is a successful pregnancy, I'm doing an injustice to the life growing inside me by not wanting to believe it, if that makes sense. If something happens between now and then, you'll cancel the appt-that's the worst that can happen. I felt like by planning ahead it gave me power over my emotions and fear.

 

[Picksbaby]

I feel like each pregnancy deserves excitement like it's the first. Yes, I do worry occasionally that something will go wrong, but yet if this is a successful pregnancy, I'm doing an injustice to the life growing inside me by not wanting to believe it, if that makes sense. If something happens between now and then, you'll cancel the appt-that's the worst that can happen. I felt like by planning ahead it gave me power over my emotions and fear.

Very true. I'm booking it this afternoon my partner is very excited with it being his first child. Would I be able to ask you something about your chemical and this pregnancy? Please x

 

[ready4family]

Of course

 

[Picksbaby]

When you had your chemical, did you have cycles between if so how many? I had a chemical in march and fell before af arrived so I'm slightly worried

 

[ready4family]

Nope! I had a chemical in Feb, my dr put me on progesterone (I have a luteal phase defect we discovered which likely caused my mc in October), and got pg the next cycle!

 

[Picksbaby]

I've just looked at your due date and I think I was due 14th November or 18th? Not sure which one.
It's so reassuring to see someone else that has got pregnant straight after a chemical ad has a healthy little bean x

 

[ready4family]

And most mc happen as a chemical where they fail to implant properly etc... Everyday is a celebration!

 

[Picksbaby]

I was only 3 weeks and 5 days when I lost bean, the line was alway faint but picked up on clear blue digital which I head the hcg needs to be quite high? I'm now 4weeks 1day so that was a huge milestone for me and making it past the weekend! I've got blood tests next week to check my hcgs ever days a blessing but I can't help but worry

 

[ready4family]

I try not to think about it, and just let the days go by. Everyday that goes by I feel more and more confident, you will too!