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Hugs hunxx

Not really good at giving advice but you know the truth, i am guessing that hes just just trying to get a reaction off you.
I would hold your head high and keep smiling (even if it is through gritted teeth)

Start a diary of all contact between you its what i do with my FOB. As for the PND i am guessing it would be a case of his word against yours

Hopefully someone with more info can help xx
 
Carolyn, My dear friend, Come here!!! Just jump on a train and stay as long as you like.

If you want me to msg him, tell me. This is not on. At all,

Whats Abby's gran onna do?! :wacko: Maybe you can confide in her..

Im in shock at his behaviour...
 
Hiya hun! Just reading what you wrote I think he is just hurt and upset. When we are hurt we say things we dont mean! I did and so did my ex!
I would be the same though, after the things you said he said I wouldnt want his mum to have Abby overnight either.. I think you did the right thing. If he carries on then go to the police and tell him you will!! Its not good hun!!
Dont run away though, or you will be running forever! I am the same as you! I kicked the ex out cos of texting other women, his attitude and the way he spoke to me and the fact he put everyone and everything before me and the girls!!
The diary is a good idea.. Make a note of everything he does and says and keep all the inbox and text messages!!!
 
Dont feel bad! I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child, they all have different dads and i'm now single as the FOB is abusive. The father of my second child cheated on me and we split, we were together 4 years, how could I have known it would have ended up that way and I already had my eldest daughter from a young foolish relationship.

My point is no one knows how things are gonna pan out, I didnt have this planned for myself but thats the way it is, we are not bad people like some would have us believe!

I love my kids, I dont need a man...Girl power! :happydance: Haha!
 
Bex1p said:
Dont feel bad! I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child, they all have different dads and i'm now single as the FOB is abusive. The father of my second child cheated on me and we split, we were together 4 years, how could I have known it would have ended up that way and I already had my eldest daughter from a young foolish relationship.

My point is no one knows how things are gonna pan out, I didnt have this planned for myself but thats the way it is, we are not bad people like some would have us believe!

I love my kids, I dont need a man...Girl power! :happydance: Haha!
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You have no idea how much better that makes me feel :thumbup: thanks hun. just dont want people to judge :blush: Its def gonna be girl power from now on in this household!!! Me and my girls dont need men!! haha xx
 
Hun if anyone judges they aint worth knowing!!!!!!!

I am 34 old enough to know better and i have 2 wonderful children by 2 shitty men, as said above no one knows how things will pan out.

Keep smiling and stay strong x
 
Sometimes dont you just get annoyed with facebook and the trouble it can cause lol! Like my friends are still friends with the twins dad and they tell me everything and I am like oh well now I really wanna punch him in the eye! lol
 
carolyn_s said:
Laura2919 said:
Sometimes dont you just get annoyed with facebook and the trouble it can cause lol! Like my friends are still friends with the twins dad and they tell me everything and I am like oh well now I really wanna punch him in the eye! lol
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who needs jermemy kyle ey!! i deleted FOB for that reason he is possibly the worlds worst for his status' being about private things and i cant stand that!!

I do have a nosey from time to time though :blush:
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In the early days of our split I aimed a lot of comments at him! Then a few weeks back (I think) I deleted FOB and his new girlfriends sister (who was a mate) and now I feel much better! No aimed statuses and now I can get on with being me! I think facebook can be a huge problem when have discussions, arguments and family problems lol
 
If anyone judges you for having two children by two different men then they are not worth the time of day, tell them where to go.

Not our fault that men are dickheads is it? :D

:hugs: xxx
 
Laura2919 said:
carolyn_s said:
Laura2919 said:
Sometimes dont you just get annoyed with facebook and the trouble it can cause lol! Like my friends are still friends with the twins dad and they tell me everything and I am like oh well now I really wanna punch him in the eye! lol
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who needs jermemy kyle ey!! i deleted FOB for that reason he is possibly the worlds worst for his status' being about private things and i cant stand that!!

I do have a nosey from time to time though :blush:
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In the early days of our split I aimed a lot of comments at him! Then a few weeks back (I think) I deleted FOB and his new girlfriends sister (who was a mate) and now I feel much better! No aimed statuses and now I can get on with being me! I think facebook can be a huge problem when have discussions, arguments and family problems lol
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couldnt have put it better myself!!

Thanks suzanne!! Im in a much more positive mood today and that is exactly my way of thinking!! xx
 
Yeah I plan to have more kids so that means my next child will have a different dad! Like Suzanne said its not our fault! Anyway I wouldnt worry your a good mum and thats all that matters! :hugs:
 
I think you should just move down this way, I'll beat anyone who judges you with a stick.
 
Laura2919 said:
Sometimes dont you just get annoyed with facebook and the trouble it can cause lol! Like my friends are still friends with the twins dad and they tell me everything and I am like oh well now I really wanna punch him in the eye! lol
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Ahhhh - don't knock it Laura ;) I do most of my 'spying' on my ex via fb. HE thinks he's blocked me and all of the kids - but we fooled him into accepting us as a friend using a false account so that we can see what he's up to .... it's how we knew straight away that he had a new job and could inform the CSA straight away :rofl:

As for judging people :shrug: ... I like Emzymathruby's avatar - "before you go pointing fingers make sure your hands are clean".

My best friend in the whole world has 3 children with 3 different fathers - but they share the nicest, kindest, most caring, loveable and wonderful Mummy that there ever was :D :hugs:
 
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