Scared of labour again - and not even pregnant anyone?

[kittykatasa]

Ok. So were trying for another, will be number 5, ive laboured 4 times, yet so scared of thinking of all the pain again and am petrified already and not even pregnant yet and i don't know why as i know what happens, maybe that y as i know its so very bad, and i cant do epidural as i have to stand mostly in labour no matter what. As thats my way of dealing with it. Not felt this so scared before haha. Does anyone else feel like this?

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

I feel like that too sometimes but then I take a deep breath and remind myself the reward is worth the challenge!

 

[LovingLimes]

YES! lol also not even pregnant

 

[xMissxZoiex]

I've had 3 very traumatic births and 2 of those times I didn't leave the hospital with a baby and the other one my baby was 9 weeks prem, We are TTC again but sometimes I think what am I thinking putting myself through it but I have to believe it will all be ok in the end.

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

Omg! So sorry Miss! Rooting for you to get your BFP and to have a "normal" labor! I am so sorry for all you have been through!

 

[xMissxZoiex]

Thank you, I will be having a pre term planned section as I've had my cervix surgically closed which is permanent and I have a specialist doctor, one of just a handful in the country so fingers crossed all will go to plan next time. X

 

[mrsmummy2]

Oh gosh Miss, I am so sorry for all that you've been through. I hope you get a bfp soon and have a wonderful birth experience next time.

kitty - I totally understand the angst. I remember feeling it with my DS and my birth for DD was 'textbook'. I'm slightly concerned about it this time (whenever I finally get that lovely BFP!!) But more so because my labour with DS was only 1.5hrs and I'm worried I won't make it to the hospital

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

Oh Mrs.!! I wish my labor was that quick. DD was like 22 hours but DS was only 4 so maybe my next one will be fast too haha!

 

[mrsmummy2]

Hoping - haha! Super quick. I arrived at the hospital and gave birth 6 minutes later!!!
Yikes... 22 hrs. My DD was only 10 hrs.. I've definitely had it pretty "easy" with labours! The next one will walk out

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

I actually read a birth story on here where a lady said the baby just kinda fell out and no one knew. She didn't even push lol

 

[mrsmummy2]

Thats bonkers!!!