Scared to death

[suzan]

I am so scared to go thru another miscarriage. Two were enough, I dont want to go thru it again. Mostly I am scared of the Blighted ovum.. it was a shock to know that there was no baby in there.

I am so so so scared. I was even thinking that when I conceive, I wont have an ultrasound at all.. not until 20w.. IMAGINE!!

Anyone else scared?

 

[Carley]

I'm scared too hunny. I've had 3 miscarriages and a premature son. Hopefully soon you will be blessed.

 

[Rumpskin]

I am scared too darling and I have only had one.

It is nearly 3 months for me and even though I was told to wait 3 months, for me personally, I think the wait has done me good. My memories were just too vivid to try again.

xx

 

[Carley]

I think the wait can be good to heal emotionally. I didn't wait after I had a premature son nor did I get the heal from it.

 

[Omi]

I think its natural to be scared. I dont know what to expect next time but i've told myself i'll try to not obsess about it..yeah right!

Im the opposite suz, ive already asked the doc if i can have an early scan cause i had a missed mc and only found out the baby died to weeks earlier on my first scan at 10 weeks. Obviusly very upsetting. i know im gonna be a mess until i see that things are ok..

Here's a hug and some babydust for us all !!

 

[coccyx]

Try to keep positive ladies. I had 6 miscs before I had my first daughter. Know its scarey but I kept telling myself that if I really really wanted a baby I had to keep strong and positive to reach that goal. Sending lots of baby dust your way

 

[carmen]

Suzan .....

i am the same as Omi, I had a missed MC , Found out at my 11 week scan , the heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks.

So i m thinking of getting one at 8 weeks... cos i cannot wait till three month.

Say when you find out your pregnant.... your almost 5 weeks ( if you don t test early ...lol ) ... then to wait three weeks for that 8 week scan.

Its going to give you the confidence again.

I m not going to lie .... i think everyone who as suffered a MC.... is so so scared. But when we all want that little baby so much..... you gotta keep strong and positive

 

[funkym]

Hi Suzan

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling like this, but it is perfectly normally to worry next time round, you wouldnt be human if you didnt. Like you, i've had 2 m/c's. Me and my partner went for blood tests last week to find a cause, we find out next week. I'm here if you want to talk. xxx

 

[Sinead]

Hun, its normal to be scared, I am too, after 1 m/c. It will be ok in the end and soon enough you will be holding your bundle of joy