Scared!

[maaybe2010]

We've booked our first doctors appointment for the 7th april
A week on Friday.

I know it'll take time to get the test and results back but I'm so scared of what we're going to be faced with

It's either "Everythin is normal, fine"

- In which case I'll then send myself mad wonderding what the hell is going wrong if everything is working

OR "a, b, c is not working" "You'll need a, b, c treatment"
OR "We're sorry there's nothing we can do for you"

- In which case I'll be worrying will the treatment work, what if they don't, what are the side effects etc, etc"


Also before we decided to TTC I went to the doctors to get the pill (after having the implant removed) however I threw out the pack when OH started talking about TTC.

Fast forward three or four months and for financial reasons we talked about actually goin back on the pill

So book another doctors appintment and he says "Oh yes your due a repeat perscription., How have they been for you?" So I just said "Oh yeah they've been fine" Not wanting to give him our life story of why I had wasted the other pills.

So then luckily everything got sorted with our finances very quickly.
And once again we were back to well it would be ok to start trying again then.

So when I go back on the 7th I'm worried he'll look at my history and I'm going to have to explain the whole situation to him

And then my OH was like "What if he doesn't believe you"
Well now I'm really worried he's gona call me a liar or think I'm a total prat

Wow this is turning into an essay, no one will probably get this far lol
Thank you if you have

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[Rudeollie]

Maaybe dont worry honey....I thought all the same things as you are doing! Just be open and honest about it. He will probably think you are very very good for deciding to wait while you sorted your finances out! Imagine how many babies the doctors see each year that are born into poverty these days!!!!!!!! And its 2010!!!!!!!!!!!
Is everything normal cycle wise with you?? If so thats the only reason he will say come back later - If its all working ok (even tho you have yet to get pg) They will make you wait til its 2 years.....However if you arent ovualting or having AF (like me) then they will want you to tell them when you had AF over the past year etc etc
Hope this helps your plan of attack with the doc...Im hoping that your ticker gives you a nice big egg for DH's boy to get to so you dont have to go through all the prodding and poking xxx FX for bfp! xxx

 

[maaybe2010]

Rudeollie - You've made me feel so much better about all this

I was so worried he might be thinking, well you were going to take them, then you never, then you were, they you weren't "Are you sure you've got this worked out, are you sure your ready"

But now I see that we were just being responisable



Cycles are pretty much textbook 28 days, a 29 day every now and then
but last month I had a 33day (6 days late)
BUT I definatley think was down to stress . . . .

I'm not sure if I OV yet, I'm temping and OPKing for it this month
I normally get sore boobs and mood swings around that time though so I'm 99.9% sure I do

me too hun!

Thank yoooou!


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[Rudeollie]

Youre welcome - Im always here to try help....Thats the beauty of this site. All the help and support and then love when the bfp's arrive. Priceless! xxx

 

[maaybe2010]

I know I'm so glad I found it

How long have you been TTC hun?


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[maaybe2010]

Double Post!

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[Rudeollie]

We've been ttc for almost 20months....Knew something wasnt right as soon as we started trying as I didnt get AF.....Only had her 5x in the 20months & 3 of those are from clomid! Hahaha! And DH had a test last year that said he has bad morphology so we're both broken!
BUT we m/c last year so we know we can manage it again (somehow!)
Im currently on Day 11 and awaiting ov! FX this month will be the end of it haha!
xxx

 

[maaybe2010]

We've been ttc for almost 20months....Knew something wasnt right as soon as we started trying as I didnt get AF.....Only had her 5x in the 20months & 3 of those are from clomid! Hahaha! And DH had a test last year that said he has bad morphology so we're both broken!
BUT we m/c last year so we know we can manage it again (somehow!)
Im currently on Day 11 and awaiting ov! FX this month will be the end of it haha!
xxx

Oh hun that length of time must be really tough

Yeah if you managed it once then you can definately manage it again!

I'm day 12, we're close!
I'll be follwing you to see how your getting on

 

[Rudeollie]

Sounds good to me honey I'll send you a friends invite and we can keep each other updated! xxx Cycle buds xxx

 

[maaybe2010]

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[Starbright]

Good luck for your appt next Friday. xx

 

[maaybe2010]

Good luck for your appt next Friday. xx

Thans hun

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