Sick and tired of my babys father..

[lyndsy]

He is really starting to get on my nerves, I've tried so hard to put up with him for the sake of my baby.. I really want to just leave him but I am not strong enough..

My son is 8 months old now and I still don't have a house, I know things take time and persistance but for crying out loud!! I've gone from pillar to post from staying at my mums to then staying at FOB mums.

Things arent working out here now and I'm tired of it all. I don't know what to do anymore. I cant think straight I am always feeling down and stuff!

I just need someone to talk... please? :/

 

[N1kki]

oh babes *hugs* go talk to your local housing authority and speak to a housing advisor they should give you all your housing options then get the ball rolling.i dont know if you work or not or are recieving benefits but maybe take trip to local jobcentre and speak to an advisor there making sure your getting all your entitled too.
Then that way least you know you've got the makings of getting your future sorted,you should talk to family or friends see if you can stay with them until you get sorted by yourself.Most important thing talk to the F.O.B tell him you dont see this working and you feel you would be better off with just you by yourself and living with your son,then make the arrangements for him to come see him too.Tell him how you feel and make it clear,dont be backed into a corner.

I hope you get sorted hun,but put you and your son first not the man.

 

[lyndsy]

oh babes *hugs* go talk to your local housing authority and speak to a housing advisor they should give you all your housing options then get the ball rolling.i dont know if you work or not or are recieving benefits but maybe take trip to local jobcentre and speak to an advisor there making sure your getting all your entitled too.
Then that way least you know you've got the makings of getting your future sorted,you should talk to family or friends see if you can stay with them until you get sorted by yourself.Most important thing talk to the F.O.B tell him you dont see this working and you feel you would be better off with just you by yourself and living with your son,then make the arrangements for him to come see him too.Tell him how you feel and make it clear,dont be backed into a corner.

I hope you get sorted hun,but put you and your son first not the man.

Hey Nikki, I been to the council so many times but no luck with them, yes I am receiving all I am entitled to. FOB is due to start his new job as soon as a CRB check comes back. Weve been trying to save for a private house but its hard as so many things keep cropping up that we need to get for my son and with staying with other family members they need money from us too.. :S