Hi all,
Just wanted a rant - thought I was doing great after my mc two weeks ago today, except that I've been on my own in the office today and the tears obviously decided they'd been way far too long
Since the mc I've had practically constant cramp, although it changes from almost not the to todays offering (nice, sharp cramping right in the middle of my abdomen). Constantly need the loo, constantly tired. Just, in fact, how I felt when I was pregnant. Superb. Except I can't be pregnant again as OH and I only did it once, 4 days ago.
If one more person says something along the lines of "at least you lost it early so it wasn't a PROPER baby.." I. Will. Hit. Them. Of course it was a proper baby, it was OUR baby and even though I lost it at 5 weeks it will ALWAYS be our baby. I just never got the chance to hold him/her and tell them how much I loved them
I so desperately want to be pregnant again, but I know everything is stuffed up after a mc for a while, and I just want it over so we can start the try again properly, even though I don't think I'll ever forget the one that should have been our first.
Just wanted a rant - thought I was doing great after my mc two weeks ago today, except that I've been on my own in the office today and the tears obviously decided they'd been way far too long
Since the mc I've had practically constant cramp, although it changes from almost not the to todays offering (nice, sharp cramping right in the middle of my abdomen). Constantly need the loo, constantly tired. Just, in fact, how I felt when I was pregnant. Superb. Except I can't be pregnant again as OH and I only did it once, 4 days ago.
If one more person says something along the lines of "at least you lost it early so it wasn't a PROPER baby.." I. Will. Hit. Them. Of course it was a proper baby, it was OUR baby and even though I lost it at 5 weeks it will ALWAYS be our baby. I just never got the chance to hold him/her and tell them how much I loved them
I so desperately want to be pregnant again, but I know everything is stuffed up after a mc for a while, and I just want it over so we can start the try again properly, even though I don't think I'll ever forget the one that should have been our first.