Single mom

[Alizaeh]

Hello there, well Im 19 years old and just a couple of months ago i found out i was pregnat by my now ex boyfriend, since then we kept having problems and well he has another girl pregnant.. two months ago we broke up and he's the type of guy thats not responsible he's into cars and tattoos and does not care about my baby, he's back with his other girl so basically I'm on my own with a baby girl on the way.. I'm scared of being a single mom i do not know what to do or who to turn to even tho i have my parents support i feel down all the time and i hide it all the time i try to make people believe im happy and that nothing is wrong when in reality i feel like my whole world is crashing down around me

 

[daneuse27]

Please don't be down. I know its easier said than done, but I can see you have lots of reasons to be happy here. You have a beautiful baby coming and you're going to love caring for her. I follow a few parenting journals on here of moms who are just as young as you, and they love being mommies I can give you a few names if you want to talk to some others who are moms your age and are also single. I'm a single mom to a little girl and I love it. She's the best thing that ever happened to me. I can't imagine my life without her and am already so excited about our future together as mother and daughter. You'll get there too, just keep positive! Keep smiling, read lots of books, and go meet other moms!

 

[jen_rios]

hi, i understand how you feel completely. i got pregnant after a one night stand, and he is younger than me and doing his thing. it sucks big time and hurts like hell every day because i do like him. he cares more about himself and who hes doing than what is going on with me and our baby. i have done everything by myself so far, and dont expect anything from him. i wish i had some awesome advice that would make it all better, but i dont. it does get a little easier every day i guess. guys now a days go out and do their thing without caring about consequences. i do know that i am blessed to have my little girl coming, regardless of the piece of crap he has turned out to be, and you are too. being pregnant and alone is definitely not easy, and being a single mom will not be easy either. but you CAN do it on your own. you will have that much more time and love to give to your daughter. it will all be worth it when you have her in your arms, because she is part of YOU. if you ever want to talk or just vent, feel free to message me stay strong, and please remember that God will never give you more than you can handle.

 

[Alizaeh]

Thank you and yes it is a little bit hard but im trying i really am some times i get so mad at myself for doing this to my poor little girl but after asking almost begging him to go to my apps i realized he wasnt worth it and even tho i found about his other girl when iwas already pregnant i stood up by her side i helped her out iwas always there for her only it turned out that she told him to stay away from me and he did and now hes missing out on my baby

 

[Alizaeh]

and thank you so much jen i really needed someone besides my family that i could do it.. it gets hard cuz my dad doesnt really talk to me now he doesnt say anything bad but i can tel hes dissapointed i feel lost i really dont know what to do...

 

[jen_rios]

dont feel lost, you are not alone ever. there is nothing wrong with WANTING more from him, wanting him to care. he will realize one day when it is too late what he has missed. and will have no one to blame but himself. personally, the other girl deserves a good punch in the throat and shit happens, your dad will realize that. my dad isnt really that good to me, but ive learned not to hold it against him. just gotta accept him as he is. you are grown, and about to be a MOM! anyone who isnt behind you and your decisions for you and your daughter need to move around because you dont need any more negative in your life. so when are you due? have you picked a name yet?

 

[jen_rios]

all you can do is take one day at a time.... and CHOCOLATE personally, me and my Sophia are addicted to fudgesicles

 

[Alizaeh]

all you can do is take one day at a time.... and CHOCOLATE personally, me and my Sophia are addicted to fudgesicles

When i wasnt pregnant i loved chocolate but now i cant even stand it, i get so sick and yea she still messages me on fb being all nice but i dont really care anymore i just go with the flow and yes i actually gonna name her Hennessy Alizaeh and im due april 9 uff i cant wait i dont want to be pregnant anymore even tho u cant even tell im 23 weeks it looks like i am 8

 

[jen_rios]

all you can do is take one day at a time.... and CHOCOLATE personally, me and my Sophia are addicted to fudgesicles

When i wasnt pregnant i loved chocolate but now i cant even stand it, i get so sick and yea she still messages me on fb being all nice but i dont really care anymore i just go with the flow and yes i actually gonna name her Hennessy Alizaeh and im due april 9 uff i cant wait i dont want to be pregnant anymore even tho u cant even tell im 23 weeks it looks like i am 8

completely opposite for me! i wasnt too big on chocolate, but i eat it every day now. what do you eat for "comfort food"? and SCREW THAT CHICK! tell her to shove it up her blow hole! at least i would lol. sorry, im kinda blunt... i love the name! unique and i love the spelling. not too much longer. im a little ahead of you, but at 7 mo, im still pretty small. ive only gained about 10 lbs (had hyperemesis to 23 wks) but im all baby. i love watching her make my stomach an ocean. so this may be forward, but i feel the urge to do this. id like to message you my FB info so if you are ever going through something and need someone to talk to quick (quicker than bnb) or just an ear to listen. dont feel obligated to hit me up, but im definitely here if you need me. its always nice to have someone who can relate and listen during bad times and good i must say i am a damn good friend, and it seems like you could really use one right now, as much as i do. i wont send it till you give me the go ahead. and im at the point i dont sleep too much anymore i stay up late and wake early.

 

[Alizaeh]

completely opposite for me! i wasnt too big on chocolate, but i eat it every day now. what do you eat for "comfort food"? and SCREW THAT CHICK! tell her to shove it up her blow hole! at least i would lol. sorry, im kinda blunt... i love the name! unique and i love the spelling. not too much longer. im a little ahead of you, but at 7 mo, im still pretty small. ive only gained about 10 lbs (had hyperemesis to 23 wks) but im all baby. i love watching her make my stomach an ocean. so this may be forward, but i feel the urge to do this. id like to message you my FB info so if you are ever going through something and need someone to talk to quick (quicker than bnb) or just an ear to listen. dont feel obligated to hit me up, but im definitely here if you need me. its always nice to have someone who can relate and listen during bad times and good i must say i am a damn good friend, and it seems like you could really use one right now, as much as i do. i wont send it till you give me the go ahead. and im at the point i dont sleep too much anymore i stay up late and wake early.

spicy food jesus christ i love spicy food my life wouldnt be the same without it haha.. and yeah of course you can just private message me with your fb info so we can talk and aww you're 6 weeks more than I am thats socute and im guessing youre having a girl right? whats gonna be her name?

 

[jen_rios]

completely opposite for me! i wasnt too big on chocolate, but i eat it every day now. what do you eat for "comfort food"? and SCREW THAT CHICK! tell her to shove it up her blow hole! at least i would lol. sorry, im kinda blunt... i love the name! unique and i love the spelling. not too much longer. im a little ahead of you, but at 7 mo, im still pretty small. ive only gained about 10 lbs (had hyperemesis to 23 wks) but im all baby. i love watching her make my stomach an ocean. so this may be forward, but i feel the urge to do this. id like to message you my FB info so if you are ever going through something and need someone to talk to quick (quicker than bnb) or just an ear to listen. dont feel obligated to hit me up, but im definitely here if you need me. its always nice to have someone who can relate and listen during bad times and good i must say i am a damn good friend, and it seems like you could really use one right now, as much as i do. i wont send it till you give me the go ahead. and im at the point i dont sleep too much anymore i stay up late and wake early.

spicy food jesus christ i love spicy food my life wouldnt be the same without it haha.. and yeah of course you can just private message me with your fb info so we can talk and aww you're 6 weeks more than I am thats socute and im guessing youre having a girl right? whats gonna be her name?

i have a thing for spicy foods too... wings yep, her name is gonna be Sophia Louise. Louise was my grandmas name. im gonna send you my info now.