Single mom

[Jellybean1103]

Hello all. I am 25 and new to this site. My ex fiancé and I were ttc for nearly 9 months. The last month of our relationship we fought everyday so we stopped trying. 10 days after he dumped me I got my BFP. I will be 6 weeks on Monday. This is my first child and the father wants nothing to do with us. I'm on this site looking for support. And advice. I'd also like other ladies to compare this new journey with 😊

 

[Dezireey]

Well congratulations on your baby and good luck with your mummy journey.

It's a shame he is being like that but my advice is that you should not contact him,maybe tell him when baby is born and that is that. Men who do this tend to run the opposite way further if you try to get in touch a lot during your pregnancy. He knows what he has done so leave him to it. Enjoy this baby,enjoy being a Mummy. Being a single mum is not the end of the world,there are far worse things in life. Give your baby lots of love and you will be part of a great little team.Dont be afraid to ask for support from people when you need it. Xx hugs xx

 

[44npregnant]

Hello all. I am 25 and new to this site. My ex fiancé and I were ttc for nearly 9 months. The last month of our relationship we fought everyday so we stopped trying. 10 days after he dumped me I got my BFP. I will be 6 weeks on Monday. This is my first child and the father wants nothing to do with us. I'm on this site looking for support. And advice. I'd also like other ladies to compare this new journey with 😊

I'm sorry to hear that your good news isn't being shared with the father. I had the same issue, realized I was pregnant after the relationship was over. One thing you have to be clear on is that you have to be okay with being a single Mom. Be sure that you can handle it because no matter how many ideas you might have the father will somehow change his mind and help you later on, it's not likely. Most likely they will never be any real help.

I hope that you have a big circle of family and friends that you can really count on to help you. I mean really count on. I'm not saying it's impossible to do it alone, I have managed so far with no help from father, family or friends. But it's an incredible amount for one person to have to deal with alone. Good luck! So happy for you. Because after everything is said and done, they are little miracles.

 

[violetta21]

You have m support!!!!