So depressing, losing hope

[Lceaker]

I feel like I will never get pregnant again!! . My cycles are perfect, I ovulate fine on my own, bloodwork great, husbands fine....no explanation as to why I can't conceive. I somedays wish I had a reason, so I knew what needed to be fixed or what we needed to try next. My insurance doesn't cover infertility so it's very expensive to just keep trying random things and testing

 

[grace14]

I'm so sorry you are feeling so discouraged. How long have you been trying? Stay hopeful- hope is so important. (((hugs)))

 

[waitingongod1]

I know I'm in same boat but never pregnant...nothing is wrong with us...has been 2 1/2 years...very discouraging to not know why...

 

[jjbubbles28]

I hear you
I have perfect bloods, check my progesterone monthly, opk, temp, all normal. SA normal. and its been 14 months. Did my first IUI yeaterday and they found cervical adhesions. They mentioned that preventing fertilization? Is it true? And if so I should get pregnant with 1 ripe follicle and one that just burst right?

 

[TTC First]

I believe there has to be something going on. DH and I tried for 2 and a half years and suffered from 3 losses last year. In December I had my 4th IUI and not a BFN on Christmas day. We were both so upset. We had a long serious talk and decided to put our names on the list for adoption. We even thought of ways that we could afford IVF along with the PGS that the doctors said I needed in order to make the little bean stick. It was a very sad time and we gave up. AF didn't come so I did a test on December 28th and it was positive. I am in week 11 now and things are looking good.

I found that I need progesterone in order to get my BFP and aspirin to make it stick.

Do lots of reading and keep trying different things and something should work.

 

[c beary83]

I'm the same- we've been trying for fifteen months with no

All tests have come back fine. I've got to go for a hsg soon which I'm not looking forward to. After that it's clomid.

It's so frustrating not knowing what's wrong

 

[Annie Cherry]

I'm in the same boat too. Its so frustrating and noone understands when I say it would be easier if something was actually wrong so I could get treatment. We're on cycle 20 or 21..... I kinda lost track and we took a 3 month break at the end of 2014.

 

[TTC First]

Just thought that I would update maybe giving someone some hope.

After two and a half years of trying and the loss of 3 babies last year, I just hit 12 weeks and I have a little bouncy one in there. We were soon close to giving up. It's been a very long and hard road but all is going well.

 

[jjbubbles28]

Congrats TTCfirst.
I hope you are sending some good vibes to us. I am 7dpiui. Praying this is what I needed

 

[Soydrpepe]

Never give up hope! I was so angry and depressed because we tried for just under two years. There was a point where I tracked everything and of course had every symptom under the sun but I never got a BFP. Well, in Jan. I started school and was working after class so I hardly had any time to think about it,much less BD with DH. Apparently we were together JUST enough because on Valentines day(of all days!) I finally quit being in denial and took a test after I realized I was a week late. BFP! I kept dismissing every symptom. Tired? Its because school/work so much. Sick? Strep throat(though it was suspicious when it went away in two days with no meds). I just forgot that month about it all because I was busy. I hated everyone telling me not to think about it and now I hate them more cuz they were right! hah. This is #2 for us

 

[Brittbri]

I'm in the same boat as you. Me and dh have been ttc for 4 years now. All bloodwork came back normal, hsg, sa, lap, iui, 6 rounds of clomid, and nothing. I feel like we have tried everything under the sun here and nothing seems to work or they can't find the reason for us not to conceive. I'm seeing a new RE now so hopefully a new plan will work for us! Don't give up. I'll be praying for you!!!

 

[Pixie88]

Im becoming down hearted now with trying. Everyone keeps saying forget about trying so hard. I've tracked ovulation, taking conception pills me and OH and praying for some hope. but nothing working. Im so desperate for a baby and its hard with everyone around me having babies. I have tried so hard not to think about it but cant help it subconsciously. Wondering if i will ever get there.