So frustrated TTC almost 8 years

[Momof3fosho]

Hey guys, my name is Maryam. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over 7 years now. We got pregnant last year for the first time which ended in a miscarriage. So we started trying as soon as the doctor gave us the green light and still nothing after 10 months of trying. I am now so frustrated because hubby doesn't understand that we need to bd on and around my fertile days. He keeps saying, "if it's meant to be, blah blah blah!" Well I keep telling him that scientifically, that is not how it works. I am so frustrated and sad. And it doesn't help that almost all my friends around me and my family have gotten pregnant and have had multiple pregnancies and children and we still have none. I love and am happy for all of them, but would like my own bundle/s of joy. If any of you are in a similar situation, how do you cope? I have no one to talk to and hubby is no help... I am literally at my wits end and cry ALL the time! Thanks in advance.

 

[c beary83]

Hi. I'm so sorry to hear you have been ttc for so long. I know how draining it is. I'm ready to give up after just two years

Has the doctor looked into any reasons why you can't conceive? I've had loads of tests done and hubby has too and everything has come back normal

 

[Momof3fosho]

Thanks for your message. We have had test and things are fine as well. The doctor said we have unexplained infertility. :/ Praying for a miracle.

 

[c beary83]

It is truly heartbreaking. Somehow seems worse when there is nothing to fix doesn't it. I hope you get your miracle soon.