So frustrated!

[lou_w34]

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[purpledahlia]

dont let him stress you out! Find a way to laugh it off, easier said than done yes, but if you can find humour in him being an immature idiot then its easier to ignore. Tell him if he texts you between the hours of 11pm and 9am then you will get a new number and not tell him, as he is disturbing your sleep and when your carrying a baby you need good sleep. id be annoyed if fob woke me up too x

 

[lou_w34]

haha more like 9pm till 9am! Im so tired these days lol

Yeah i know not to let it bug me too much, its just soooo annoying! Ive told him ill change my number if he doesnt stop, but it only works for a while... so i should follow through with it and actually do it, but i just worry that ill get accused of pushing him out!

Men are pants lol

 

[purpledahlia]

Or turn your phone off.. but then for me i WANT to turn mine off but i cant cos i need the alarm on it. So only some days can i just turn it off. i know what do these guys think texting so late or early? dont they understand we SLEEP

 

[lou_w34]

Im one of those weird people who never switch their phone off, but im gunna have to break that habbit!

Sleeping is my favourite past time at the moment! And it doesnt half make me grumpy when its interupted! lol

 

[purpledahlia]

Oh i was one of those ppl too, i NEVER turned my phone off untill i mvoed back up here a few weeks ago. honestly, never, but i find it quite nice now, it might sound like im being antisocial and a recluse but sometimes its nice to hide offline on msn, go offline on fB chat, turn off your phone, and sit and read birth stories. Lol. I kinda like that when i wanna not speak to anyone i dont have too. And i also used to take my phone everywhere, but now i can easily leave it upstairs, I just have no energy sometimes and i just want to sleep lots. I have no energy to be all chatty and happy,

 

[lou_w34]

Yeah im deff gunna start switching it off nows! Its not being anti social, sometimes you just need time to think and be by yourself! Im trying not to read birth stories at the mo, the pain factor scares me haha.

Its much easier to sit and look miserable than it does to pretend to look happy, so i say dont waste your energy trying, its easier that way =)

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah excactly, sometimes u just need a time out, i used to not understand why my friend did this in her third tri, but now i totally do..

 

[KaeRit21]

my phone annoys me to, i put it on silent and throw it in a drawer these days, FOB texts me daily and recently its been bugging the life out of me because he never asks about me, or bump, its all about him and i cant be bothered with the hassle of argument no 456 thru text message.

i get the whole wanting to be by yourself thing, i do it to

xxx

 

[lou_w34]

Same here, he'll text, but never ask about the baby, its just random crap about his life, like i care whats happening to him... id be perfectly happy if he got ran over by a bus tomorrow... harsh, but he drove me to think like that lol

Its nice to be by yourself, but i hate it when you start to over think everything, then i start to crave company!

 

[KaeRit21]

yea i get that too...dont take this wrong way girls but its reassuring to know that even when you feel like no one elses understands, you lot on here do

xxx

 

[lou_w34]

Yeps, its nice to know that your not the only one who feels pants, that other people do aswell! Then you dont feel so lonely =)