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Getting stressed, starting IVF next month, friend has announced her pregnancy on Facebook by changing her pic to her scan. My 91 yr old gran keeps asking when I,ll be starting a family. Hubby just let me cry, and he cuddle me in, would be lost without him. He is so patient will make a fab dad. Hope he gets the chance.
 
That is what a real family do. My husband very often sees me to cry recently. I am not a person that always cries but these days I am gutted. I just need to leave it go.
 
I am with you nobump! My poor 81 Grandfather asks me every time he see's me when are we going to have a baby. I see him several times per week. It's very annoying. My DH has been so patient with me and the entire process. We are planning to do IUI or IVF possibly in a few months if we don't get that BFP soon. I am so ready and just want to move on from this heart ache of not being able to conceive.
 
That is what a real family do. My husband very often sees me to cry recently. I am not a person that always cries but these days I am gutted. I just need to leave it go.

I cry easily, but try to hide things from hubby, but a times he can just tell. But think it helps to let things out at times.
Having support helps.
 
I am with you nobump! My poor 81 Grandfather asks me every time he see's me when are we going to have a baby. I see him several times per week. It's very annoying. My DH has been so patient with me and the entire process. We are planning to do IUI or IVF possibly in a few months if we don't get that BFP soon. I am so ready and just want to move on from this heart ache of not being able to conceive.
My gran is also deaf, so having to shout it,s not likely to happen is not great. Don't see her that often. It is great to have support I've partners.
 
Really nice to see that DH are being supportive, I see some horror stories on here. I have to always remind myself that the way I am feeling about our infertility is the same way he feels but he just has a different way of showing it. He has done everything I have asked to give us the best possible chance, people need to remember you are both in this together. This journey will either bring couples closer together or tear them apart. I am glad that you are getting the support you deserve.

I don't make new year resolutions but I did today and the first one was to deactivate my facebook account. I found it was full of everything I wanted and was really bringing me down, I don't need help with that at the moment. Its only been one day and I feel so much better already. I highly recommend it.

Good luck ladies, lets hope 2014 will be the year :flower:
 
Really nice to see that DH are being supportive, I see some horror stories on here. I have to always remind myself that the way I am feeling about our infertility is the same way he feels but he just has a different way of showing it. He has done everything I have asked to give us the best possible chance, people need to remember you are both in this together. This journey will either bring couples closer together or tear them apart. I am glad that you are getting the support you deserve.

I don't make new year resolutions but I did today and the first one was to deactivate my facebook account. I found it was full of everything I wanted and was really bringing me down, I don't need help with that at the moment. Its only been one day and I feel so much better already. I highly recommend it.

Good luck ladies, lets hope 2014 will be the year :flower:


Thanks for the inspiration. I was thinking of getting off facebook for new year as I waste too much time on it but couldn't bring myself to do it. I wish I had done it when I thought of it. Then I wouldn't have got upset seeing the latest baby news from an inlaw.

I've just deactivated my account. My real friends can contact me the old fashioned way. Everyone else... meh!
 

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