so i got my bfp now the worry begins!

[Mommy2Kian]

Im so so scared that this baby is going to have problems with his brain just like kaden im really excited then all of a sudden it hits me, what if i have to give birth and leave my baby again

i only found out monday so its early days, of course im worrying about misscarriage, then when i get past 12 weeks i got to worry over the 20 week scan, i cant rest untill he/she is here...i dont want to stress out to much as i no its not good for bubz...thsi is gonna be a loooong 8 months!!!

 

[jennyellen13]

congratulations hun, i know how you feel, i will only feel ok once my baby is in my arms crying. pop into the stillbirth and sids sections as we have a pregnancy forum there too which can sometimes help as everyone has been through similar.

xxxxx

 

[debgreasby]

Congrats hunni xx

 

[jess_smurf]

congrats xx if you need any help let me know xx its a hard 8mth slog from now on xx will be here for you if you need me x

 

[Kota]

congratulations!! i hope the next 8months pass quickly and trouble free for you.

 

[Mommy2Kian]

thankyou ladies, 1st worry already and only 4 weeks, kians got chicken pox im pretty sure ive had it there for i should be ok but why why why..why now xXx

 

[21Rach]

saw ur name and title of post pop up so jumped in here to say a massive congrats and wishing u all the luck in the world u deserve it, hope it all runs smoothly xxxxxx

 

[ellie]

oh wow so so pleased for you! thats amazing lovely.
I know you will be worrying and worrying but didnt they reassure you it was very unlikely to happen again? in any case they will be keeping a close close eye on you and bubs I expect? which hopefully might help along the way.
I know it will be a long long time but reallly hoping it will just fly by and I can't wait to hear about your new little one! I am sure everything will be just fine
in the meantime hope kian gets better soon, if you've had it you should be fine.
and you know that worrying is not going to help at all - your new bubs needs you to not be stressed. get as much reassurance as you need. loads of congrats to you all

 

[Mommy2Kian]

Thankyou ellie yes they said if it was to happen again it would be pure bad luck, its nothing inherited or genetic thankfully!

look at ur little bundle how cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[twinklestar]

huge congratulations

im wishing you a healthy happy pregnancy that flys by, x xx

 

[Jox]

it is going to be a long long road...with many ups and downs and until your baby is actually in your arms screaming you wont be able to relax.

I know im so aware of what can go wrong now that im worrying at every stage....stage 1 (early MC) now passed....next aim....get to 20 weeks!!!!

Set yourself targets and dates to reach and take it one step at a time...

but being completely honest....it is flying by for me in comparison to Kasper's pregnancy x

 

[SugarKisses]

fab news hun, really pleased for you x

 

[eeyore007]

Hi again! Really pleased to see that you've some good news. Remember well what you went through last year as we were on the same trimester boards. Sincerely hope it works out and hope you are able to enjoy this pregnancy and have a healthy bouncing baby! Easier said than done, I'm sure, but hope it all works out well. Good luck! x

 

[Mommy2Kian]

thanks all ross and kian got me through with what happend with kaden but ALSO the ladies on baby and bump! i had so much support, yes there were the odd few who didnt agree and i dont hold that against them, but you ladies were so kind and gave me strength!!!

my next aim is 12 weeks, so lets get there first then i can relax a little

 

[FlowerFairy]

Awww!!! This is wonderful news to read, Congrats hun, xxxx

 

[Mommy2Kian]

look at ur boys, u must be so proud xXx

 

[jennyellen13]

mommytokian, iv just been on gone too soon, thank you for the candle for baby jenny. iv left one for kaden, and your story broke my heart, im having an emotional time anyway but now cant stop crying. you are all so very brave for what you had to go through. xxxx

 

[Mommy2Kian]

A big thankyou on behalf of kaden for his candle and thankyou for the compliment