So upset

[Jenren]

Im so upset.

We decided before going to florida in July that we would try for a baby while on holiday and when we got back.
Matt has now changed his mind and said that hes still not ready.

That upset me enough but we've been to a christening today and just found that one of my best friends is pregnant again she already has a 2 yr old.

Im so so upset, i desperatly want to have a baby and feel there is a massive hole inside me.

Just wanted to get it off my chest.
Jen xx

 

[ricschick]

im so sorry hun xx

 

[booflebump]

xxx

 

[Pops]

xxx

 

[calm]

Makes me so mad when men do that, hugs x

 

[sleepinbeauty]

poor thing.... *hugs* I understand completely.

 

[kate.m.]

I really feel for you. I cant imagine getting so close and then being told no. And I can imagine the "Im not ready" argument starts to loose its validity after a while, you'd want actual concrete/physical reasons. The christening must have been lovely yet awful for you.

 

[Katia-xO]

he'll come round, he can't keep saying no..
Let's hope it's soon! xx

 

[Mrs Poppy]

Know exactly how you feel xxx

 

[jillypoop]

Aw hun, that's awful. It's one thing for OH not to be ready and have ages to wait but for him to tell him that you can try at a certain time and then to get there for him to change his mind must be heartbreaking. I think you guys need to have a good talk because it's really unfair of him to do that.

Sorry hunny xx

 

[Elphaba]

Big hugs to you, Jen. Has your husband given you any time scale as to when he WILL be ready?

K x

 

[Jenren]

Thanks girlies.
No time frame at the moment - he just now says he doesnt know.

 

[jillypoop]

men are poo.

Something I have realised today. We will always love them etc but they are poo.

xxx

 

[bunnyg82]

oh hun! How awful. My hubby has done that to me, but to be honest, it's mainly my fault because I haven't lost enough weight. But for you it must be awful. Especially if he hasn't come up with a time frame. I think you need to really have a chat to him to see what will make him feel ready - it's a massive decision and I don't know if we will ever feel truly ready but it has to come to a point where you just bite the bullet and go for it.

xx