katherinegrey
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So me and DF decided that we wanted just a very small ceremony followed by a very small reception, we decided we'd even self cater and just put an afternoon tea and a buffet on to keep costs down. Well now our day guest list is at 30 and our evening guest list is a whopping 81. In addition to this we decided we'd just have one bridesmaid, my sister, well now she's all offended because I'm not having my niece, which means my best friend wants to be bridesmaid which means so does SIL and my step-niece and DF's sister, taking me up to a grand total of SIX bridesmaids. I simply can't afford six bridesmaids! I can't afford 6 bouquets, it's madness, I only wanted a very small affair, and all I keep getting is 'well, you should at least invite so and so', or 'can't they at least come to the evening?!'. Ridiculous. I'm so stressed about the whole thing, the wedding is in just under four months and I'm ready to cry.